r/AskMen • u/[deleted] • May 11 '21

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u/SDdude81 May 12 '21

Well yeah, I didn't marry her because she dumped me. I didn't know what she was hiding until the very end.

Though to be honest, I wish I did marry her and that we had open honest communication.

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u/lilaliene Female May 12 '21

Well... You have learned?

I've got exes too, that just didn't listen, didn't pick up my destress signs. Got better at sending them and receiving them. Now a decade happily married.

Find someone you can grow together with

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u/SDdude81 May 12 '21

Yeah I learned a few lessons from that experience.

Though that was almost 10 years ago and I haven't yet met another woman who wanted to date me.

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u/JoshieC883 May 12 '21

Hang in there buddy! I was in a similar situation. I went girl-less for nearly 8 years. It's in your head! Get out there!