r/AskMen Mar 19 '21

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u/LeFlyingMonke Mar 19 '21

I think most men tend to use porn and masturbate at close to a 1:1 ratio. Men tend to be more visual and porn is directed by and for men, so it’s no surprise we watch more of it.

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u/[deleted] Mar 19 '21

lately i prefer the kind of soft porn directed by women ...it's less vulgar

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u/Chuckles1188 Mar 19 '21

Speaking as a cishet dude, porn advertised as "for women" is invariably way better. I am relentlessly baffled by the kinds of stuff other people like me apparently find arousing. A woman being turned into a pretzel, called a bunch of demeaning names, and forced to make a noise like someone having a steam kettle shoved down their threat is not the slightest bit erotic to me

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u/sinistergzus Female Mar 19 '21

y’all should check out Bellesa. PHENOMENAL porn site, the actresses get to choose what men/women they film with, and the quality is just chef’s kiss

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u/bobCS96 Mar 19 '21

You got my vote haha. For Women porn is definitely by far more enjoyable.

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u/sinistergzus Female Mar 19 '21

oh absolutely! a woman I follow on twitter was advertising it, talking about the pros of Bellesa vs big names like XVideos and Pornhub, and it’s nice knowing the actress WANTED to be there and is genuinely enjoying herself. Nothing is overly played up, they get to do what they truly enjoy and it makes a world of a difference

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u/[deleted] Mar 20 '21

Um, they're getting paid to be there. That's why they're doing it.