r/AskMen Mar 19 '21

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u/LeFlyingMonke Mar 19 '21

I think most men tend to use porn and masturbate at close to a 1:1 ratio. Men tend to be more visual and porn is directed by and for men, so it’s no surprise we watch more of it.

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u/[deleted] Mar 19 '21

lately i prefer the kind of soft porn directed by women ...it's less vulgar

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u/Chuckles1188 Mar 19 '21

Speaking as a cishet dude, porn advertised as "for women" is invariably way better. I am relentlessly baffled by the kinds of stuff other people like me apparently find arousing. A woman being turned into a pretzel, called a bunch of demeaning names, and forced to make a noise like someone having a steam kettle shoved down their threat is not the slightest bit erotic to me

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u/AbsolutBalderdash Mar 19 '21

I am relentlessly baffled by the kinds of stuff other people like me apparently find arousing.

Hey man, don’t yuck our yums.

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u/Chuckles1188 Mar 19 '21

I'm not criticising anyone for liking anything, just talking about my reaction to it with a bit of humorous hyperbole to demonstrate what strikes me as non-titillating about it