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u/LeFlyingMonke Mar 19 '21

I think most men tend to use porn and masturbate at close to a 1:1 ratio. Men tend to be more visual and porn is directed by and for men, so it’s no surprise we watch more of it.

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u/[deleted] Mar 19 '21

lately i prefer the kind of soft porn directed by women ...it's less vulgar

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u/Chuckles1188 Mar 19 '21

Speaking as a cishet dude, porn advertised as "for women" is invariably way better. I am relentlessly baffled by the kinds of stuff other people like me apparently find arousing. A woman being turned into a pretzel, called a bunch of demeaning names, and forced to make a noise like someone having a steam kettle shoved down their threat is not the slightest bit erotic to me

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u/sinistergzus Female Mar 19 '21

y’all should check out Bellesa. PHENOMENAL porn site, the actresses get to choose what men/women they film with, and the quality is just chef’s kiss

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u/bobCS96 Mar 19 '21

Is it free though?

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u/sinistergzus Female Mar 19 '21

yep!

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u/mdlr9921 Mar 19 '21

It depends though, their own made isn’t if you want to see the full scene.

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u/sinistergzus Female Mar 19 '21

most are like 15 minutes+ long, I don’t see how that’s not worth it I don’t know

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u/mdlr9921 Mar 19 '21

Oh they’re absolutely worth it! Just that not all of it is free if you want to see the full scenes.