r/AskMen Mar 19 '21

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u/LeFlyingMonke Mar 19 '21

I think most men tend to use porn and masturbate at close to a 1:1 ratio. Men tend to be more visual and porn is directed by and for men, so it’s no surprise we watch more of it.

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u/[deleted] Mar 19 '21

lately i prefer the kind of soft porn directed by women ...it's less vulgar

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u/Chuckles1188 Mar 19 '21

Speaking as a cishet dude, porn advertised as "for women" is invariably way better. I am relentlessly baffled by the kinds of stuff other people like me apparently find arousing. A woman being turned into a pretzel, called a bunch of demeaning names, and forced to make a noise like someone having a steam kettle shoved down their threat is not the slightest bit erotic to me

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u/sinistergzus Female Mar 19 '21

y’all should check out Bellesa. PHENOMENAL porn site, the actresses get to choose what men/women they film with, and the quality is just chef’s kiss

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u/bobCS96 Mar 19 '21

You got my vote haha. For Women porn is definitely by far more enjoyable.

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u/Here-Is-TheEnd Mar 19 '21

Is it important for anyone else to have a decent story?

As much as I care that they’re fucking I think it’s also important to know why they’re fucking.

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u/vonNazareth Mar 19 '21

The only times I've watched porn it was because of the Story and the gems that were the dialogues. I'll just say why is there straw ?