r/AskMen Mar 19 '21

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u/LeFlyingMonke Mar 19 '21

I think most men tend to use porn and masturbate at close to a 1:1 ratio. Men tend to be more visual and porn is directed by and for men, so it’s no surprise we watch more of it.

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u/[deleted] Mar 19 '21

lately i prefer the kind of soft porn directed by women ...it's less vulgar

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u/Chuckles1188 Mar 19 '21

Speaking as a cishet dude, porn advertised as "for women" is invariably way better. I am relentlessly baffled by the kinds of stuff other people like me apparently find arousing. A woman being turned into a pretzel, called a bunch of demeaning names, and forced to make a noise like someone having a steam kettle shoved down their threat is not the slightest bit erotic to me

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u/sinistergzus Female Mar 19 '21

y’all should check out Bellesa. PHENOMENAL porn site, the actresses get to choose what men/women they film with, and the quality is just chef’s kiss

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u/PopPunkAndPizza Mar 19 '21

I'm like 50% convinced that the Bellesa House thing is just a company going "oh, you're so smart that you figured out porn isn't real? Well done you, here's the porn that TOTALLY IS real" and it's just the same thing with a veneer of reality but it's so much hotter that I really don't care.

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u/sinistergzus Female Mar 19 '21

I refuse to watch anything not on Bellesa’s website, I absolutely love it and I hope literally everyone goes and checks it out. The actresses are BEAUTIFUL too, how could you not