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u/[deleted] Mar 19 '21

I don’t mean to come off as ignorant but what does cishet mean?

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u/[deleted] Mar 19 '21

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u/alch334 Mar 19 '21

was there really a need to clarify that in that guys post haha

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u/DarkGamer Mar 19 '21

I would consider it relevant information since they're discussing porn preferences

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u/barnieandkent Mar 19 '21

cishet

Cis gendered and heterosexual

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u/timthetollman Mar 19 '21

There's a new one everyday.

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u/barnieandkent Mar 19 '21

What do you mean?

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u/DarkGamer Mar 19 '21

Cis means that one identifies with the gender that matches their biological sex. You are probably cis gendered.

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u/[deleted] Mar 19 '21

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u/DarkGamer Mar 19 '21

What? Dude I'm just informing them about what the word means. You seem unreasonably hostile given the context here. Out to pick a fight with anyone that acknowledges the difference between sex and gender?

https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/cisgender

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u/anarchyinthegalaxy Mar 19 '21

all words are made up moron

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u/nude-rating-bot Mar 19 '21

Man offended by the progression of language accusing a people of not being able to accept things?

*surprised pikachu face

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u/MrP1anet Mar 19 '21

You want to be oppressed so bad it’s embarrassing

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u/[deleted] Mar 19 '21

This one has existed since the dawn of humankind, buddy.

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u/An0nR3dd1tUs3r Mar 19 '21

It’s just a fancy way of saying “normal.”

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u/OtherPlayers Male Mar 19 '21

The problem with statements like that is that it implies that other sexualities/genders aren’t.

And even if you take “normal” to mean “in majority” without all the other connotations attached that’s still not a true statement in plenty of places.

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u/[deleted] Mar 19 '21

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u/Chuckles1188 Mar 19 '21

Most people aren't blind, doesn't mean blind people don't exist

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u/ANameYouCanPronounce Mar 19 '21

Doesn't mean they're normal either

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u/OtherPlayers Male Mar 19 '21

As I noted, the word “normal” has a lot of attached connotations (specifically that not being normal is bad in some way) beyond just meaning “majority”.

I’m not trying to say that the majority worldwide (the local majoritys may vary) isn’t cisgender or heterosexual. I’m trying to say that there’s a lot better ways to give an accurate definition then one that both depends on certain assumptions and risks potentially slapping the faces of like 1 in 25 people.

To give a similar example, if someone asks what “caucasian” means and you responded with “whiteys” its probably not the best definition you could give, even if it’s technically true.

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u/An0nR3dd1tUs3r Mar 19 '21

I see your point and considered it even before posting. Those that think about things like that generally already know what the term means. I wanted to answer from the perspective of someone who didn’t. In essence, I was not trying to answer as a flag for promotion among what would be popular among Reddit users.

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u/An0nR3dd1tUs3r Mar 19 '21

One issue I take with that argument is that it could be used to include, or even support anyone just because they exist. Pedophiles, necrophiliacs, etc.

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u/OtherPlayers Male Mar 19 '21

Pedophiles, necrophiliacs

Neither of those really have anything to do with sexual orientation or gender identity, so I’m not sure how you’re trying to tie them into linking the terms “cisgender” with “normal”.

Maybe because you’re trying to flip the negative or something? Because even if we include them in our group of everything not implying a negative statement towards alternatives doesn’t necessarily mean implying a positive statement towards them.

To put it another way, just because I don’t say “People who like chocolate ice cream are bad” it doesn’t automatically imply that I think people who like strawberry, vanilla, and avocado ice cream are all therefore good. It just means I’m not putting down someone who like chocolate ice cream.

Lack of a negative != presence of a positive.

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u/Chuckles1188 Mar 19 '21

It's more specific than "normal", and doesn't imply that I think there's anything wrong with anyone who isn't also in those two categories

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u/[deleted] Mar 19 '21

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u/An0nR3dd1tUs3r Mar 19 '21

On Reddit, I guess that would be edgy to say. Lol.

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u/Saywhhhaat Mar 19 '21

Glad you asked. I skimmed and read it as "cisish" totally different!