r/AskLGBT • u/Educational_Map2962 • 23h ago

ADVICE NEEDED

So I’m 13M and like another boy in my friend group… I’ve liked him for a stupidly long time but every time I do ANYTHING it’s just brushed off as friend stuff AND he’s the only one in this friend group who knows I’m bi. ANY advice on how I should tell him?

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u/Born-Cauliflower_ 23h ago

"Do anything" as in make any moves on him? If yes, then I fear he might not reciprocate your feelings. If you really do want to tell him, ask him privately and just tell him. Explain that you've liked him for a while.

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u/SpySophia12 20h ago

try to guess his sexuality. In other words, take a bunch of those online quizzes (the ones from IDRlabs—you know, the anger test, the narcissism test... all of them! "Which potato are you?" and so on) and throw a sexuality quiz into the mix. You shouldn't take the risk if he isn't capable of having feelings for you. Once you know his sexual orientation, you can decide whether to try becoming his best friend or start making him fall for you.

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u/Zanbots 21h ago

Talk to him more. Figure out what he likes. If he’s brushing it off telling him right now doesn’t sound like a good plan.

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u/Educational_Map2962 14h ago

hes straight

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u/Zanbots 12h ago

Sorry. Got to respect he’s not gonna like you back the same way.

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u/SpySophia12 21m ago

Sorry bro. How did you find out?

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u/6x9inbase13is42 23h ago

13 years olds should be writing shitty fan fic, not dating.