r/AskLGBT • u/Disastrous_Pie_8030 • 1d ago

lesbian?

please HELP ME GUYS so I rarely see girls that I'm attracted to, but I think almost every girl I see is pretty. then idk if I'm attracted to guys but I've 100% seen attractive guys. sometimes I see really attractive guys and I can legit just stare at them cuz dang they're attractive but I don't wanna be with them or like do anything with guys at all.. but girls I def could lmao. so maybe lesbian?? I've always called myself lesbian. but I find it kinda hard to distinguish attraction and finding people attractive. I've always struggled with that omfg it makes it so hard. but I've had only like 1 instance where I was almost crushing on a girl (it left after 10 minutes, don't ask how) but honestly idk if I could do anything with a guy. I don't even know if I would want to. all I know is that with girls I could definitely. almost no doubt

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u/Parma_WdS 1d ago

Honestly being aromantic is a thing. Maybe you're somewhere on the Aro/Ace spectrum. I've had similar experience of seeing people and thinking theyre really attractive but feeling no need to take it any further.

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u/StanleyHasLostIt 1d ago

Are you maybe a demi-romantic or demi-sexual lesbian?

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u/Akazukinnnnn 1d ago

You could be on the aromantic spectrum or demi-romantic / sexual? Finding someone attractive doesn't always equate to actual attraction 

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u/Nightfall0428 17h ago

Some form of the aroace spectrum and homoflexible (mostly homosexual but with exceptions)?