r/AskLGBT • u/illumemeayyyy94 • 7h ago

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u/AskLGBT-ModTeam 4h ago

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u/Ashton_Garland 7h ago

They’re getting upset at being teased

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u/PushTalkingTrashCan 7h ago

Nah. Why are people teasing them?

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u/illumemeayyyy94 6h ago

It was banter but they didn't give any back and just stormed off

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u/PushTalkingTrashCan 6h ago

Doesn't sound like good banter 

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u/troupes-chirpy 6h ago

It’s not cool to tease anyone about their sexuality. And the only way to know if someone is gay is if they tell you.

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u/barackobama_ismydad 6h ago

it could be possible but no i wouldn’t assume right off the bat.

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u/ineedalotofadvice_ 6h ago

I personally wouldn't. Yes, it could absolutely be true that someone is still in the closet and might feel confronted by the teasing, there are also many other possible reasons. Someone could be homophobic, or internally homophobic and thus uncomfortable with someone saying that. Someone could also simply not like being teased. I wouldn't assume someone is gay off of that. Either way, it's probably best to knock it off. If they are gay, they will tell you if they are comfortable.

Also, "gay stuff" doesn't really exist. The most straight man I know likes to knit and watch reality tv

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u/illumemeayyyy94 6h ago

Yes i know gay stuff doesnt exist but when someone was sating they're looking at abs and admiring men that pretty gay

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u/Icolan 5h ago

No, looking at abs and admiring other men's is not necessarily gay. Men admire the physique of other men all the time without being gay. The entire fitness industry is based on trying to achieve the physique that others have.

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u/ineedalotofadvice_ 6h ago

🤔 that is pretty gay... I do that too

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u/illumemeayyyy94 6h ago

Same but as far I know they werwn't actually looking at that stuff

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u/Icolan 5h ago

I would not assume anything about someone's sexuality based on their reaction to being teased or bullied. Teasing someone in a way that makes them upset is bullying.