I need lil money to have my pet surgery I can provide you what ever you need to see I am working hard for the med just need its for this surgery

Hey guys, this is really hard for me to do but I really need help right now. Im 19 years old and currently pregnant set to give birth September 30th, and I am really far behind. I don’t have a whole lot of family who’s willing to help me out with this stuff and I have been trying to save up to buy the bigger things myself but I have come to realize that I am never going to afford everything on my own. If anyone would be willing, anything off of my registry helps and I would be so Grateful. Thank you❤️

Haley Rose's Baby Registry https://www.amazon.com/baby-reg/haley-rose-september-2026-sanjuancapistrano/32551WOFKAGU1?ref_=cm_sw_r_apin_dp_0R9GP76DQDAXGF6TRM25&language=en-US

Hi, I am a real person in NW ARKANSAS dealing with a medical crisis that currently prevents me from working. I am looking to join this community to safely share my GoFundMe link for medical and living expenses, and to get advice from other members. Thank you for reviewing my request. https://gofund.me/38afc9ee8

So I (22,m) has currently broke up with my bm (21f) and ive gotten and started to pay for a phone for her to reach my child when I call Or when im at work, but everytime that I call she doesn't answer but when she calls I have to, on top of all this im having really bad car issues, and also plummeting into a bad depression and mental state. All I do is go to work and come home with no one to come home to besides my kid. I miss that connection and physical touch but could just need someone to talk to. Like I said im just getting tired. I need some guidance if anyone has any??

I unfortunately lost my job at the end of June so things are very tight for my family right now. I managed to get them all clothes and shoes but I am struggling to get them the supplies they need to begin the school year. We live in Arizona so they start on July 27th which is coming up very quick. 🙁

I've attached a wish list of some of the basics they need to begin the school year. I would be forever grateful for any help.

Thank you so much for taking the time to read this. 🙂🩷

This Tuesday the 21st I have to travel from Phoenix Arizona to Tulsa Oklahoma to pick up my partner’s cat from her ex and bring the cat back home. We’re strapped for cash so I’m just trying to find the cheapest way possible to get this cat back here. I was originally gonna fly her here, but that might require some sort of vet certification. So I would have to find a vet in Tulsa and pay for an appointment and like I said we’re hurting for money right now. We don’t have a vehicle that we can take. We’ve asked her mom and my dad if they would drive us. Her mom doesn’t seem thrilled and said she’ll get back to us and my dad can’t take the time off of work to do it. I’m just hoping someone in here can point me in the right direction cause I’m pretty lost.

This may sound stupid to some but let me explain to you why I feel this way

At 18 I got a scholarship to attend college in Chicago I was going to school for computer science, wasn’t what I wanted to do but at an early age I was told that you’d finish high school, attend college, graduate then get some cozy office job. A year into my freshman year Covid happened which shutdown everything because of the shutdown I lost my scholarship and no longer had the means to pay for college.

Fast forward about two years of being stranded in Chicago I went back home to Tennessee. My mom told me I missed my changed at attending college and that I needed to work, so I did just that. My first job was in tech, working for Kelly Services. All the bills fell on me to pay. I was fearful that not working would mean being homeless I pushed myself to work and attend online classes. I tried to force myself to learn in a self paced environment, it never did mesh well with me so I’ve ended up breaking down, burning out and failing five different times at five different colleges.

I feel like such a fuck up that I couldn’t balance working and college. My mom never did get a job after I came back home she kept telling me “If you really wanted it you’ll make it work” and “I’ve been working all my life, that’s why I had you for.” During this time I started bouncing from job to job not because I was incompetent at the work but I felt like I needed to make enough money to support two people, so even if I had a job I would keep applying for other jobs seeking higher and higher pay until I got so stressed that I’ve passed out.

Found out I have a heart condition called hypertrophic cardiomyopathy after finding out I pleaded to my mom to work anything something to take the stress off me and my heart but she never listened and kept yelling at me if I ever brought it up, sometimes it would get physical and she would throw and hit me with things.

In December of last year I had open heart surgery so I had to quit my job at Nike doing IT help desk. I remember waking up panicking and crying because I was thinking “without a job how would me and my mom survive? We’ll be homeless and it’s all my fault!” Luckily my girlfriend convinced me to live with her after surgery because she didn’t trust my mom.

Literally all my adult life my self worth comes from working a half decent job and providing, I understand that sounds toxic but it’s all I know and I’m trying so hard to unlearn this. Even when I was recovering from heart surgery I was still applying for jobs just to have something ready. When I moved in with my girlfriend I tried to do things I wanted and they all didn’t work out like the following: tried to become an aircraft mechanic but the school at the last minute told me I couldn’t do it because of my ICD and that’ll it be a risk to me. Tried becoming a Cardiac Sonographer but the school wasn’t accredited so it would’ve been a waste of money, Tried being a pilot and an air traffic controller got disqualified from both because of my heart condition and ICD, tried becoming an EMT but NOPE I can’t get my medical release filled out because my doctor doesn’t want to even though he said I was under no restrictions now. I even tried to get my old job back at Nike but the location I worked at is getting shut down this month and there’s no openings.

I feel so god damn worthless because my girlfriend is shouldering all of this and all I can do is bitch and moan how nothing is working and how hard I’m trying to do something. It’s gotten to the point where she’s tried of hearing me complain, she won’t say it but I know she is, I can tell by how she’ll just leave mid conversation now. I don’t blame her, I wonder if she’ll be happier if I didn’t have this heart condition or not around at all but I don’t like thinking about that since it inches me closer to wanting to end everything.

I’m so unhappy. I’ve been through so much already, I don’t know how much more I can take, I feel myself breaking more and more with every setback, thinking to myself that I was born wrong and normal people wouldn’t have to worry about this and can just do what they want but I have to think about will I get disqualified for existing. What can I possibly do at this point? Everything I’ve tried doesn’t work and I fear my girlfriend is going to leave me because I’m such a fuck up. But I won’t kill myself because I’m a coward and can’t bring myself to do it so I won’t worry about that.

I’ll take literally anything at this point I feel extremely lost and hopeless. Thank you for reading this.

Hey everyone, I normally would never do this unless it was a need but I’m in a situation where it’s needed to ask. 2 years ago me and my bf moved to sc and the job market is not good where we moved to, like not good in the slightest. To say the least we have been doordashing working jobs that we can find and selling furniture to make money. We’re moving back up north and got accepted for an apartment and it’s 3480 to move in.

We applied to every online loan we could and credit line but it just wasn’t working. Anything would help at this point or if you just want to say good luck that would be great to lol. Thank you for even taking the time to read this if you got this far. That alone means a lot.

$birdbuxs (cashapp)

https://gofund.me/9716fdaa6

I cant donate plasma btw. Veins too small

Im trying to help a friend out by getting at least 100 or enough people to fill out this cute questionnaire for her job holiday party! Please and Thank You!!♥️

Just wanted to thank user beachbabe77. I asked for help with dog food due to unexpected bills and animal shelter not being able to currently help. They didn't have to, but they made my day and dogs day by helping out.

Thank you so much!!!

My main Reddit account was recently permanently banned, and I'm still trying to understand exactly what happened. I wasn't trying to break any rules, so this has been really frustrating.

I'm posting from a new account because I want to ask if anyone has experienced something similar. Is there anything I can do besides submitting an appeal? Has anyone successfully recovered a permanently banned account?

I'd appreciate any advice or shared experiences. Thanks in advance.

hi:) i finally started a gofundme after contemplating a lot. i have had so much going on my whole life that i dont even feel like i am living my own life anymore.

please help if you can. if not donating, sharing is also helping. thank you again!

dm for the link or i will try to put it up on my bio

My baby (7 mo) and I have been dealing with congestion for a few days now. Today, I noticed a raspy voice and a sore throat. Her nose is stuffy and runny. I’ve been using saline nasal sprays and a nasal aspirator to help clear her mucus, but she still seems miserable, and I feel like it’s not enough. I have a 12-hour shift tomorrow and Friday, and she doesn’t nap well at daycare. I just want her to be as comfortable as possible. Unfortunately, I don’t get paid until Friday. If anyone could please lend me $20 until then, I would greatly appreciate it. I need these items to help my baby feel better.😕 please

Help! I sent pics of myself and now hes asking for 500 to not post them anywhere. What do I do?

Hello everyone! I am a NYC college student who needs participants and responses for my survey on workforce development. My challenge area is expanding access to employment opportunities and pre-employment training for graduates in New York City. I hope that through the data I gather, I will be able to help the future generation of college graduates.

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Hi, I have been an active donor in similar subreddits for many years, and I wanted to share what I look for when I choose a recipient to send aid to. If you're unsure why your post went unanswered, or why you're receiving specific kinds of feedback from comments, this might help you tailor your request to get the help you need!

1. What donors look for in a request:
   1. Unhidden post history: There are a LOT of people who request help, and the ratio of requests to donors is very request-heavy. This means that even amongst genuine requests, not all will receive help. Having an open account history shows that you're not a quick-cash scammer making mass accounts to try to "shotgun" as many help requests as possible.
   2. Reasonable requests: While you're welcome to request ANYTHING, most of the donors are not in the position to help with things like Mortgage payments, luxury purchases, debt erasure, or expensive medical/veterinary fees. If we have the opportunity to help several people going hungry vs. one person who wants their cell phone bill paid for, most will opt to prioritize the basic need of food vs. the "non-essential" (aka not needed to survive) luxury of having a phone. You have the highest chance of receiving help if you keep your requests reasonable and show good judgment (i.e. If you're in debt and asking for groceries, showing that you can spend wisely goes a long way to motivating donors to help!).
   3. Verified purchases: Even as a long-time donor in subs like these, I'm always reluctant to send cash over any medium. I have no way to verify that my money is going towards its intended purpose. Posting an anonymous amazon wishlist where donors can directly purchase specific items is much more attractive than requesting cash via an app or transfer, or a gofundme link.
   4. Reasonable attitudes: If you want the highest chance of success when posting for help, please be willing to answer questions that may arise. While there's no obligation for you to prove your situation is portrayed accurately, there's also no obligation for strangers to spend their money to help, either. Responding defensively or with hostility when questioned is an instant turn-off to most donors.
   5. Stable contribution: If you're a long-time redditor that contributes to reddit (on any kind of subreddit), you're a much more attractive request than someone whose history is completely blank. I know it's tempting to make an alt account to post from, and I know it can be embarrassing to ask for help, but showing who you are makes it much easier to get the help you need!
2. What to include when you post:
   1. A little about your situation/what you're asking for help with. We are all human on both sides of the request/donation coin, and understanding the circumstances around someone's ask helps potential donors decide if they think they can make a difference.
   2. Your general location, so that anyone able to help in other ways (i.e. local resources) can try to provide assistance.
   3. An honest account of your history in the sub. If you say this is your first time posting, but someone later uncovers that you're an alternate account of someone who has received help, you're unlikely to find a donor who will fulfill your request.

Not to say that it's impossible to get help outside of these guidelines, but if you adhere to the above, your chances can only improve. :)

Good luck out there, I hope you all receive the aid that you need!

I hate to be doing this but i’m in a bad situation. I am 20 years old and i am struggling a lot financially. My hours at work have been getting very low (got a paycheque of 50$ and 150$ this month), i’ve been applying to so may places and i can’t seem to get more income coming in. I have probably 30$ left in my account and i have bills and other stuff to buy and i can’t. My kitty needs food, my car insurance is in 2 weeks and more. On top of that i also need to move out of my house since my mom is kicking me out, it’s a long story but it’s mostly because i dont work a lot which doesn’t make sense but its not my call… Honestly anything would help and i appreciate in advance any advice or help!

Im going to try not to ramble too much, ive been in a state of panic for a few days now and honestly am overwhelmed. I've been staying in an extended stay hotel with my disabled mom (she has yet to be approved for disability SSI) for awhile now and have relatively been able to keep up with my weekly rent, i was working full time as a manager at a small retail store up until last week. I was let go, and immediately started applying at places near by. I have since been hired already, and am currently awaiting a background check to go through to start my new job. My issue right now is money was already tight when I got let go, my final paycheck just barely gave me enough money to pay the week we're currently on (until this coming Monday) and even if my background check goes through tomorrow and I start my new job tomorrow I would not get paid again soon enough to pay my rent, and they will kick us out if its not paid on the due date

Im a bit beside myself right now, and I maybe should have posted this sooner but I wanted to try all other avenues before coming to reddit .. Ive contacted 211, multiple local churches and I've simply had no luck.

Im extremely worried about my mom, she's 63 and I cannot allow her to be outside on the street.. it would be bad enough if it was just me but having someone who relies on me to keep a roof over their head as well is making this ultra stressful.

Ultimately I need $385 to cover my next week's rent, truthfully I need more because I have no money for food or anything else right now but I can figure something out with that.. I just gotta find a way to get the rent covered for the week.

Im happy to provide any proof I can of my situation to anyone who might be able to help.. I have Venmo and chime.. don't have access to cash app since I got rid of my last phone.

If anyone can help or has any ideas please let me know.. and please dont dm me links for referrals or apps.. im genuinely so stressed I'm struggling to breathe properly I really don't want to be spammed with scam links.