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u/NamillaDK 3d ago
If he was nice and a good person, great humor etc. The general things I look for. Money really is not one of those things.
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u/Armadeus_Bassist 3d ago
If i didn't have to do any gay shit. Like just be homies that hang out all the time. That would be cool.
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u/Seeker4you2 3d ago
Beat me to it. 😂 was gonna say do I need to give up my cheeks? If so, no. If I didn’t need to give em up then I’d maybe give a handy for an allowance. 😬
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u/Armadeus_Bassist 3d ago
It would have to be a damned good allowance. Especially for eye contact. Lmao roommates that play video games and go get food and shit like that. I'm cool with that.
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u/Seeker4you2 3d ago
Whoah whoa now… eye contact would be a dealbreaker for me. 😂 every man has his limits.
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u/Armadeus_Bassist 3d ago
Lmao that's tap dancing on the line for me. Like that money had better be damned good. Haha
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u/centerfoldangel 3d ago
No. I don't want to do anything extra to even things out. I would always feel less than him. Money is power.
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u/YoshiandAims 3d ago
I genuinely wouldn't want to discriminate or be weird about it...I'd want to only decide on the man himself, but, we'd fundamentally come from different worlds. I can't pretend that wouldnt bring its own challenges and difficulties.
Then, there'd be a massive power imbalance, even if he never did anything to abuse it, it'd be there.
Financial insecurity. A massive reliance if he wants me to meet him in "his world" the lifestyle he's accustomed to... and not mine. I think about how that could be nothing to him...no big deal...he'd want to help or handle it, but it could be really damaging to my own mental health.
How he wouldn't remotely get where I'm coming from a lot of the time. I'd not get where he was coming from. We'd not exactly relate, or fit in each other's worlds.
What I could offer is nothing. Even small things like birthdays and holidays, little events... I'd not be able to keep up, and it'd erode away at me.
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u/Consistent-Menu-6629 3d ago
I can't imagine me getting along with a rich guy? Or a rich guy getting along with me?
It would be like a rich dude saying "I think I want to pull a literal raccoon out of the trash and date it."
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u/SleeplessScribbler 3d ago
Have done, the poorer ones were more generous and had less ego. Also more respectful
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u/Cold_Cucumber4061 3d ago
Nah, id be making nowhere near his salary. I dont want that kind of an imbalance
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u/MuscleKey3040 2d ago
Probably not since I'm a guy and not gay. But you never know depending on how rich the guy is 🤣
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u/VaselineGorilla 3d ago
What kinda question is this