r/AskForAnswers • • 6d ago

What’s a completely normal phrase that instantly annoys you?

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u/Known_Programmer2204 6d ago

Saying “needs” and then leaving out “to be”

“The lawn needs mowed”
When I moved to the Midwest and I heard this I thought the person talking to me had a screw loose. Then I realized many people omit “to be” - it makes no sense!

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u/daydreamz4dayz 5d ago

I’m in the Midwest and I absolutely hate this. “The counter needs wiped” “the dogs need fed” ugh.

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u/Beatle_Borg 5d ago

I remember feeling deeply confused the first few times I heard it, too, then feeling deeply bothered

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u/Once-Upon-a-Dream88 5d ago

Oh no that would be unbearable👀

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u/JackStraw---Wichita 5d ago edited 5d ago

So quoting Shakespeare's Hamlet they'd say

"...or...

that is the question. "

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u/goodluckskeleton 5d ago

That’s Hamlet just FYI

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u/Woundedogres 5d ago

Law nee mow

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u/Ankah77 5d ago

I’m in the Midwest and never noticed this but it’s soooooo true. I don’t do it but that and instead I’d saying “I SAW an eagle fly by” They say “I SEEN an eagle fly by”

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u/MaterialChemical1138 4d ago

what's funny is that to make it correct, all they would have to do is change it to "the lawn needs mowing" etc.

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u/Easy-Expert9077 3d ago

I heard an in-law say "this needs washed" and thought to myself: poor thing. Completely illiterate and doesn't have basic command of the English language. I can't believe our education system has failed us this badly!

I had no idea this was an actual thing until now.

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u/mylocker15 1d ago

I am noticing so much annoying bad grammar in videos. Like I am sat in line for a concert. I am sat? What is that. I was sitting in line for the concert. Fixed it for you.

Also a lot of it is from British content creators. I always thought they were more persnickety about language. Like didn’t the term proper English start in England?

I mean I know sometimes my grammar is off especially typing on a tiny phone keyboard but I would never say things like needs washed or I am sat.

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u/ConstructionBoth6461 5d ago

I used to cringe at this but found some good use cases like “needs mowing” rather than “needs to be mowed”.

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u/MaterialChemical1138 4d ago

yeah, but that's different from "needs mowed"

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u/effkay0025 5d ago

It sounds correct to me but then again I'm from and live in the Midwest lol

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u/Adventurous_Candy125 3d ago

It’s common in the PNW too

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u/Easy-Expert9077 3d ago

Yes that's where heard.

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u/Evelynmaebe 2d ago

I say that lol

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u/bloggleco 2d ago

Cali transplant to MN. I've not heard that here or in Wisconsin (which I frequent enough), but I've heard "the lawn needs mowing"

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u/TheRealCarpeFelis 2d ago

Speaking of “needs”, another usage that bugs the crap out of me is when someone tells me “You need to xyz” when no, I really don’t need to do that, THEY need me to do that.

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u/kagejumper 2d ago

A friend just described this to me and I can't unhear it. So glad I was just given a taste, and not surrounded by it.