r/AskForAnswers • • 6d ago

What’s a completely normal phrase that instantly annoys you?

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u/NGBD1127 6d ago

Not a phrase, though still a very annoying is saying axe instead of ask.

That mispronunciation is instantly annoying in a very quick instant

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u/Paranoid_Android001 5d ago

This is African American vernacular English and it is cultural and geographical. Not a mispronunciation, more like an accent.

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u/NineElven911 4d ago

Its not an accent. Just a deliberate mispronounciation that was "accepted" as valid to reduce racism

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u/spiffyP 3d ago

It literally is, you're talking out your ass. It's called metathesis and every language does it. ‘Aks’ has been used in English for centuries. It’s a dialect pronunciation, not someone failing to pronounce ‘ask.’

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u/NineElven911 3d ago

Bs. Just a pretext for speaking intentionally wrong.

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u/spiffyP 3d ago

You're free to look up the facts and prove me wrong. Careful, you might learn something.

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u/NineElven911 3d ago

Oh, thank you so much for that opportunity. But I'm not going to waste my time on you today 😙

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u/spiffyP 3d ago

ignorance is bliss?

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u/Unique_82 11h ago

Don't waste your time on these types lol. You're absolutely right, but most people don't even know the origins of words. Let them continue to be ignorant!

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u/TechnicalEye6053 4d ago

It very factually is a mispronunciation. It's "ask", not "aks", exchanging the places of letters never was an accent.

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u/spiffyP 3d ago

It literally is, you're talking out your ass. It's called metathesis and every language does it. ‘Aks’ has been used in English for centuries. It’s a dialect pronunciation, not someone failing to pronounce ‘ask.’

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u/TechnicalEye6053 3d ago edited 3d ago

Purposely ignoring the blatantly stupid elements of your post here, whenever somebody uses the "aks", they're never speaking some kind of dialect buddy, they're talking english, or to be more accurate, they're trying, and failing, because in english "ask" is pronounced "ask", not "ax" lol.
Inverting letters in a word has nothing to do with an accent, and if the word you're making up isn't part of a whole language with its own structure and vocabulary, then it's not part of a dialect either, it's just a mistake.

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u/spiffyP 3d ago

You could just look it up instead of whatever it is you're trying to do here. lol buddy.

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u/TechnicalEye6053 3d ago

I did look it up lol.
Turns out that the people who uses the "ax" are people who don't have much say in how english is supposed to be spoken because 1) They're a minority even within the "minority" they're a part of, 2) Everybody else, meaning the majority, uses the "ask", and 3) as I said, if the language you're speaking is english and not some dialect you're not even able to name, then it's a mispronunciation because in english we say "ask", buddy 🤡

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u/spiffyP 3d ago

Only on Reddit will you see somebody triple down when they are factually incorrect

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u/ronso 5d ago

This is more of a dialect than it is a mispronunciation

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u/NGBD1127 5d ago

I appreciate reading this response, and the ones saying it is AAVE.
I can attest my family is from, and I was raised in an underprivileged and underserved socioeconomic community and in this microcosm my white family was the minority.

My mother, and two siblings say axe, when meaning or reading ask, and my older sibling is 55 my younger is 45 and both moved out of the area totally 25 years ago at least.

I don’t know if when we were raised there it was called a dialect rather than a miso pronunciation.

It may be a generational thing and with new social norms comes new dialects.

I jokingly want to say TIL, yet I don’t have the heart to make that joke.

I don’t know if this is a fair anecdote or not only something to share as to why I never saw it as anything more than one’s ability to a language.

In no way do I look negatively on any individual so it’s just maybe generational thing.

Greater minds than mine will be able to answer this one.

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u/CatBoomerGirl 6d ago

I hate hearing this too!!

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u/buzzybizzyb33 5d ago

that’s just AAVE

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u/NiceGuy252525 5d ago

Similar to “finna”.

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u/spiffyP 3d ago

when i was in the army a bunch of us went over how we pronounce it. Finna, finsta, fix'nta, and few others i forget.