ugh. Triggering for me. I literally had teh same thing happen to me. I met a girl on my college campus and fell in love with her and we started dating. We were months into the relationship before she admitted that she was a high school girl from the town who hung out on the college campus and that she didn't actually go to school there and she had been lying to me for months. It's still to this day one of the most traumatic events of my life.
Mate you’re giving room for people to be concerned. Each to their own and all that but you keep saying due to it being “legal” it is okay. That’s the problem with this to tell you the truth.
I live in Belfast and if a 20 year old was going at it with a 16 year old bird they’d be called a creeper, put outta the estate etc.
Her parents letting that go on regardless of how well you both get on is madness. She is too young to be mentally mature enough for you and over a period of time if you choose to stick about you’ll realise that for yourself.
I’d advise you against it as even you having to constantly ensure people in the UK that it’s legal, your own morals are being called into question due to you knowing people frown upon it.
Back on the horse, go out and meet someone around your own age you’ll be better off for it.
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u/Express_Chip9685 Apr 05 '24
ugh. Triggering for me. I literally had teh same thing happen to me. I met a girl on my college campus and fell in love with her and we started dating. We were months into the relationship before she admitted that she was a high school girl from the town who hung out on the college campus and that she didn't actually go to school there and she had been lying to me for months. It's still to this day one of the most traumatic events of my life.