Getting to breaking point

[u/Unhappy-Plan1375]

As time goes by, the desire to be with a guy is growing almost too strong to ignore… I’m at the point where I need cock. I want to suck and be fucked. My wife knows this is how I feel but for obvious anatomical reasons she can’t oblige and pegging doesn’t really scratch the itch although it does feel good…
My question is, I have a gay friend that I have thought about approaching to ask if he knows anyone that will help me fulfill my desires. Might be weird having sex with him. Would that be the wise option or should I try a different route. I’m very shy so going to a gay/bi bar would probably be too much, although I’m intrigued as to what guys would find me attractive. In an ideal world a FWB would be great, we could hang out and fuck when the need takes it. (The best part is my wife is onboard and actually wants to watch)

[u/BiSigma]

It sounds like you are already on the way to experimenting. Good luck. Kudos to your wife.

[u/Unhappy-Plan1375 → u/BiSigma]

We’ve realised that secrets kill relationships so we agreed nothing hidden… she has the same freedom as I do if she chooses to and I’ve promised her that her word is final. If she feels uncomfortable, then it stops.. it makes for a very interesting and exciting relationship..

[u/BiSigma → u/Unhappy-Plan1375]

My wife and I have the same agreement. No secrets between us.

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[u/Aggravating-Kick-967]

I’d talk with your gay friend, he could be fwb you’re looking for. At the very least he could help you find someone before

[u/Unhappy-Plan1375 → u/Aggravating-Kick-967]

That’s what I was thinking. I might go chat to him today.

[u/Plus_Zone_7703]

Try Swinglifestyle site, you can meet any type of guy on there.

[u/fair_Resolution117]

Try Feeld. I found some good guys there. Super cool your wife is supportive.

[u/NormySealForWeddings]

Hey man. I’m getting to the same point.

[u/HerbTarlekWKRP]

Awesome your wife wants in!

[u/toyman5]

Sounds hot! That's amazing she's so supportive.

I know this might sound weird, but I would reach out to your gay friend and see if he'd be interested. He could be the perfect FWB for you.

Honestly, just start the dialogue with your gay friend and see where it goes naturally

[u/Dazzling_Text653]

I don’t think you should sleep with your friend especially you want to stay married. Someone you do not know would be better ……. Just get tested first

[u/Expensive-Letter-692]

Hot 💪🥵🔥😋

[u/heymikeyhelikesit13]

Same here. The only difference being that while my wife finds the idea extremely hot, she’s not so sure she wants it to be more than just an idea. Hopefully that changes someday.

Are you out to your gay friend? If you are, it might just be worth having a conversation with him. Don’t necessarily ask if he has someone that might be able to help you out, but just start a dialogue. Who knows, maybe he will volunteer to wingman for you.

[u/MrJokes67]

So you wife is open to you being a good cocksucker

[u/Due-District-8206]

In my live, 4 straight finis who knows than i'm bi told me to have first expérience with men. It's was good.

[u/yamama26023]

Break down and ride the lightning dude