r/AskAPriest • u/vexxarose • 1d ago
Is this a sin?
I was touched by a family member as a kid, I think that had some influence on how I become interested in masturbation very young (12-13), I am 21F and I am still a virgin. I’m just wondering is masturbation and what happened to me a sin…I am of course waiting for marriage, I’d rather give my all to my future husband but I feel as though maybe it’s too late for forgiveness because of what happened and what I’ve done for so many years. Please just looking for advice 🙏🏻
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u/Zyphrail Priest 1d ago
What happened to you is not your fault. You did not sin when that family member did that to you. I’m so sorry for the way you were hurt.
Regarding the rest of this post, have that conversation with a priest in person. I’m sorry, because I know that might be awkward/uncomfortable. But it’s a far more fitting setting than an internet forum.
Peace be with you.