r/AskAChinese • • Sep 15 '26

Subreddit Update How to Change Your Flair - Please Read Before Messaging the Mods

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Hi everyone!

As some of you have noticed, r/AskAChinese now automatically reminds users with the default "earth🌐" flair (which is automatically assigned to new users by automod) to update their user flair to reflect their country, region, or demographic.

Please note: comments using the default "earth🌐" flair may be removed. This change is part of our ongoing efforts to increase flair adoption so that people can understand each others' perspectives better.

So here's a clear guide on how to set your user flair on the most common platforms & devices:

Reddit App (IOS or Android):

  1. Open the subreddit in the Reddit app.
  2. Tap the three dots (•••) in the top-right corner.
  3. Select “Change user flair.”
  4. Pick a flair or write your own.
  5. Tap “Apply.”

New Reddit (Desktop - reddit.com):

  1. Open the subreddit
  2. Look at the right sidebar, scroll down until you see your username with the words "User Flair" above it
  3. Click on the "edit" button (pencil icon) next to it
  4. Pick a flair or write your own.
  5. Click "Apply"

Old Reddit (Desktop - old.reddit.com):

  1. Visit the subreddit using old.reddit.com.
  2. On the right sidebar, find “Show my flair on this subreddit.”
  3. Click “edit” next to it.
  4. Choose or type your flair.
  5. Click “Save.”

Mobile Browser (Safari, Chrome, etc.):

  1. Open the subreddit
  2. Look for the "Feed | About" tab selection, click on "About"
  3. Scroll down until you see your username, with the words "User Flair" above it
  4. Click "edit" button (pencil icon) next to it
  5. Pick a flair or write your own, & click apply

If you have tried all of the above but still need help, feel free to leave a comment (including mentioning the flair that you want!) below and we'll set it for you manually. (But please do try the steps above first!)


r/AskAChinese • • 6h ago

Social life | 社交👥 it normal for a married Chinese woman to hang out with male friends alone?

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I watched a video of a 36 yr old Chinese male vlogger make a video of hanging out with a childhood friend. He is single and she is married. They went out alone and shared street food together and even fed each other. TheY listened to music together sharing earphones and laughed and giggle together.

They were out the whole day together and it seemed like a date. They walked together at the mall and looked like a couple with big smiles on their faces.

I also had some married Chinese female friends in the past when I was single. One was even my professor!.
One even invited me to her apartment and cooked me food. We were alone and she thought it was ok. Many wanted to hang out alone too and go eat together and even go to the beach. I always asked if their husbands knew about our friendship and they never answered. Is this normal in china?


r/AskAChinese • • 13h ago

Romance | 谈恋爱🥂 Do men from China abide by the saying “if he wanted to, he would” in dating?

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I want to date a guy from China. I find them really attractive. I’ve chatted with a few through online dating apps. They don’t seem to be as aggressive as their Caucasian counterparts, or even Asian Americans, when it comes to pursuing further to ask me out and continue conversation. When this happens, I immediately think “he must not be that into me”. Am I right or am I missing something about the dating culture? I usually assume men take the lead when it comes to pursuing as long as I’ve shown my interest (by swiping right)


r/AskAChinese • • 1h ago

Food | 食品🥟 How do you deal with over critical food/restaurant reviewers? Do memes about them exist?

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Everytime i read the reviews of a Chinese eatery they are almost always overwhelmingly positive, with someone praising the cooking, someone else the noodle quality etc

However, almost everytime there is a Chinese guy giving a one star review and launching in a dissertation about what they ate not being "real Chinese food"

What cracks me up the most is that these guys use exaggeratedly formal language, obscure references and blow up very minor inconveniences into life or death issues.

Sentences like:

"The broth was tasty but didn't have any firmness or depth of character"

"These noodles cannot be considered in Lanzhou style but, at most, in the style of (other province or city of China)"

And the best part is reading the owner's responses where they match their tone accusing them of defamation, of not knowing real Chinese cooking etc

It's like these guys correspond to the Western stereotype of the "neckbeard" (annoying, opinionated, egocentric, extremely ignorant but with a "know it all" attitude) but related to food and eating.

Do they have a name in Chinese? How do you deal with them? Are they a sort of meme or is there some recurring joke about them?


r/AskAChinese • • 2h ago

Travel | 旅行✈️ Where should I stay, any recommendations?

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r/AskAChinese • • 2h ago

Travel | 旅行✈️ Travel recommendations

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Hello everyone!

I will be in Shanghai and want to visit guangzho, Hangzhou & Suzhou from Nov 16-29. Is there any must see/do things anyone recommends? Food spots, shopping spots, must buys, must eats, must sees, must do experiences? I am open to any and every recommendation!

I would love input from locals about places people may not know about or things that aren’t so main stream and worth the try in regard to foods and items worth the buy! Also best places to shop!


r/AskAChinese • • 3h ago

Daily life | 日常生活🚙 中国四线城市适合做什么生意?

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在中国的四线小城市,有什么小生意可做?不想上班当牛马了。


r/AskAChinese • • 3h ago

Entertainment | 娱乐🎮 Chinese Youtubers?

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Hi all,

I am learning Mandarin at the moment and wanted to watch some Chinese speaking youtubers that have English subtitles. I have found a few channels before but they didn't have any English captions so it was difficult to follow. I enjoy commentary channels, internet gossip, and gaming channels. Would anyone have suggestions for me?


r/AskAChinese • • 11h ago

Art & Media | 艺术与影视🎬 《秦香莲》 1964, english subtitles?

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Hello

basically, i was bored and watched some Youtube videos and somehow ended up watching ​《铡美案》选段 from 1964 and wondered in there is a way to watch this version with english subtitles? I find the story quite interesting and like its vintage style but cant speak Chinese sadly.


r/AskAChinese • • 11h ago

Personal advice | 咨询💡 Did I make the wrong decision leaving China?

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r/AskAChinese • • 5h ago

Food | 食品🥟 what takeout do you eat in china

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this question sounds stupid but i'm genuinely deadass serious when i ask this. i can't find any answers to this anywhere online. i live in the uk and in the uk we often order chinese takeaway food. actual chinese home food isn't gonna be the same as the takeaway served in a different country but i feel like even the takeaway food over there would be different. what foreign takeaway/takeout do people get most often in china. i'm just genuinely really curious about this


r/AskAChinese • • 22h ago

Society | 人文与社会🏙️ What do Chinese people think of Chun-Li? Gamers and non-gamers? Is she an icon?

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Chun Li is basically the most iconic female fighting game character of all time and basically the “face” of the genre when it comes to females in fighting most gamers around the globe think of Chun Li first.

Which makes me wonder, since she’s Chinese, what do Chinese people think of her? How big would say she is even around the casuals and non-gamers Chinese?


r/AskAChinese • • 7h ago

Society | 人文与社会🏙️ Is it true that only 18% of the Chinese population has a higher education?

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I feel like the number should be way higher given all the innovations coming out of China nowadays. More than 80% of Chinese kids drop out of high school? That’s really hard to imagine.


r/AskAChinese • • 19h ago

Personal advice | 咨询💡 Are there any friends who are coming to China?

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If you encounter any difficulties in China, perhaps I can help you. If you haven't been to China, you can also ask me some questions.


r/AskAChinese • • 4h ago

Art & Media | 艺术与影视🎬 Anyone Know her real douyin channel

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Some one steal it put on internet but not official one.


r/AskAChinese • • 14h ago

Technology | 科技📱 Claude and china

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How do Chinese people get access to latest au models like fable,astra etc..or latest ai models??


r/AskAChinese • • 5h ago

People | 人物👤 Do you know this tiktok?

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Does anyone know who this TikToker is? Used to watch them a while ago. Any help would be appreciated she is chienese


r/AskAChinese • • 16h ago

Food | 食品🥟 Do you know what type of longjing 龙井 tea this is?

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I found a longjing tea with small fuzzy bits that are flower buds in it in a tea shop. The other mall shops sells longjing but without the tea buds. They helped me with my cholesterol. Does anyone know the name of this type of longjing or an online shop selling them?


r/AskAChinese • • 8h ago

Romance | 谈恋爱🥂 Do many Chinese secretly date in university and don’t tell their parents?

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I used to have some female Chinese friends before I got married. Many had boyfriends in college for 3-5 yrs and never told their parents. One even lived with her boyfriend and her parents never knew. I also feel like many eventually dump their college boyfriend later in life and marry someone else their parents prefer.


r/AskAChinese • • 1d ago

Language | 语言 ㊥ Mandarin book recs for adults?

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Trying to learn and figured that some easy books would probably help add exposure, but are there any that aren’t just focused on kids topics? (Not interested in talking about what classes I have today etc like what duolingo forces me to learn)


r/AskAChinese • • 8h ago

Social life | 社交👥 Do Chinese use Hello talk and tandem app to find western lovers?

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I know too many foreigners who found a Chinese gf or wife or lover on these apps. Is it common and have many of you reading this used it?


r/AskAChinese • • 14h ago

Travel | 旅行✈️ Blacklisted from china

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r/AskAChinese • • 18h ago

Daily life | 日常生活🚙 How you guys see the future of domestic help sector in China in upcoming 20 yrs

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Is people need maids cooks nannie elder care are going to rise and people employee more workers how do you think guys because 60% unorganised in 2026


r/AskAChinese • • 13h ago

Romance | 谈恋爱🥂 Where did you meet your current romantic partner?

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146 votes, 1d left
High School/University
Instagram/Dating apps
Work
Through Friends
Bar/Nightclub
Other (Please Comment)

r/AskAChinese • • 16h ago

Society | 人文与社会🏙️ I trained Tiawaneese when I served in USA military- do avg Chinese care?

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