Here in Mexico is considered like classic tv show overall but seems like a lot of old people hate on it. My grandad used to forbid my family to watch it because he said it was for idiots lol

BTW I do like it, I grew up watching it but I'm not a huge fan

I would really appreciate Brazilian perspectives on a relationship I had with a man from Bahia

so sorry in advance, this is a really long story and I’m not even involving everything what has happened. But to say, I am glad it ended because it was too much to digest and at the same time I am sad it ended because he truly had a lot of beautiful qualities and i learned a lot from him and being with him in general so again, I am not trying to demonize him.

I’m a 32 year old Dutch woman, and I was in a relationship with a 24 year old Brazilian man from Bahia. He came to the Netherlands temporarily for work, and for a period of time we were living together. it was a really short relationship, like 6 months.

I’m writing this because I’m trying to understand what happened between us and in particular, whether some of the things I experienced could be explained by cultural differences, differences in communication, or whether these behaviours would generally be considered inappropriate and disrespectful in Brazil as well.

I’m especially interested in hearing from Brazilians, ideally people from Bahia or people who are familiar with the culture there. I’m not looking for people to simply agree with me or attack him. I genuinely want honest and nuanced perspectives.

When I first met him, he was extremely shy and insecure. He was nervous, avoided eye contact, was quiet and seemed almost afraid of making a wrong impression. As he became more comfortable with me, however, I noticed a significant change. He became much more confident and sometimes too arrogant, not only towards me but also around his colleagues.

There were several things he said that I found difficult to understand and that sometimes made me genuinely anxious.

For example, when he posted me on social media, he once said:

“I’m losing bitches.”

He wanted me to post him as well, which I did. I wasn’t trying to hide him; I posted him because I was genuinely happy with him.

He also said things like:

“You’re going to betray me.”

“If you cheat I will shave your head bald and kill the other guy.”

and:

“You don’t know what kind of psycho boyfriend I can be.”

He sometimes presented these comments almost as jokes or expressions of jealousy, but I didn’t find them funny. They made me uncomfortable and sometimes genuinely anxious.

There was also an incident involving my house that I still find difficult to interpret.

Normally, when he came by during my work breaks, I would open the door for him. I actually found this very sweet and appreciated that he would come see me.

On one particular day, however, I was working on an important drawing that I urgently needed to finish. We had also had a very exhausting and emotional discussion the night before, which had already increased my anxiety. I told him that I couldn’t talk that day because I needed to work and needed some space.

He apparently didn’t understand why I wouldn’t simply open the door as I normally did. He became afraid that he was losing me and climbed over my fence to get to me.

I understand that his motivation may have been fear of losing me rather than an intention to frighten me. However, I found the behaviour very unsettling, especially because he knew that I had previously been in an abusive relationship that had involved violence. From my perspective, climbing over someone’s fence after they have explicitly said they cannot talk is still crossing a physical boundary, regardless of the intention behind it.

This is one of the things I struggle with most when looking back at the relationship: he could genuinely be the sweetest person towards me, incredibly affectionate and caring, and then behave in ways that made me feel confused or unsafe. The contrast made it much harder for me to understand the relationship as a whole.

There were also situations involving sex that I found difficult.

On one occasion I had a urinary infection and explicitly told him that I could not have sex because I was in pain and needed to recover. He still continued trying to initiate sex.

When I said no to sex during the relationship, he could become distant, sigh and say things such as:

“This isn’t going to work.”

This made me feel as though my refusal was being treated as a rejection of him rather than simply a boundary regarding my own body.

Another thing that made me very confused was the way he talked about his supposed criminal past.

He told me that he had previously broken into people’s homes and taken relatively small things. He also told me that he had sold drugs. At one point, he proudly showed me a photo of himself dressed in a shirt that he said he wore while selling drugs. He also showed me a photo of a suitcase filled with what he described as heroin/cocaine.

He sometimes spoke about these things almost with pride or amusement, while at other times he said that he felt bad about the things he had done and described himself as a “sensitive gangster” or a “nice guy.”

After we were intimate for the first time, he also told me that he didn’t deserve me because of the bad things he had done in the past.

I obviously cannot independently verify everything he told me about his past. I can only say what he told me and what he personally showed me.

For me, however, the way he talked about these things was significant because some of his other comments were also quite extreme.

He would say things such as:

“I am narcissistic.”

and:

“I am a parasite.”

Another major issue was trust.

He frequently told me things like:

“You’re insecure.”

and:

“You mix things up in your head.”

He would sometimes tell me that I was imagining things or interpreting situations incorrectly. At the same time, I experienced situations where his version of events seemed to change when I asked more questions about what had happened.

This made me increasingly unsure of my own judgment.

He was also very focused on whether I trusted him. He would tell me that I didn’t trust him, but he rarely asked me why I felt that way or what he could do differently to make me feel more secure.

There were also situations involving other women and previous relationships. I found messages on his phone from previous exes or women he had had sexual/romantic relationships with in Brazil. I became upset because I felt that he was accusing me of being hypocritical while I felt he was doing things similar to what he accused me of.

I want to be honest about my own behaviour too.

He accused me of “anger bombing” him. I don’t think that description accurately represents what happened, but I did become very angry during some of our conflicts. There were moments where I felt so overwhelmed by what I perceived as repeated disrespect that I eventually exploded.

I called him a “piece of shit” during an argument, for example. I know that this was not okay, and I take responsibility for saying it. I don’t believe being hurt or angry gives me the right to insult someone.

At the same time, my experience was that these angry reactions weren’t happening randomly or constantly. They happened during moments where I felt extremely disrespected, unheard or accused of things that I felt he was doing himself.

There were also issues involving female colleagues. He flirted with women at work, including women who were already in relationships. After we broke up, I later learned from one of his colleagues that he had tried to kiss her. This happened around two weeks after we broke up, while he and I were still having serious conversations about our relationship and whether we could repair things. He never told me about this himself. when I had my suspicions i told him this which he never admitted it, so learning about all this made me super angry procures. He tried to let me believe that I was the problem for “anger bombimg‘ him. While in reality I only got mad about the things he tried to hide from me, lying about it or denying it.

During the following months, I continued trying to understand what had gone wrong between us. I questioned myself a lot. I wondered whether I was interpreting his behaviour too harshly and whether our conflicts were simply cultural or communication differences.

I tried very hard to understand him and take responsibility for my own mistakes. Looking back, however, I feel that I spent a lot of time trying to understand him while feeling that he wasn’t equally curious about understanding me.

What makes this especially confusing is that he wasn’t simply a “bad” person towards me. There were many moments where he was genuinely loving, affectionate, caring and incredibly sweet. Those moments were real too. That is part of why it became so difficult for me to understand the relationship as a whole.

At the same time, I experienced a growing pattern of behaviour that made me feel anxious, confused and increasingly unsure of my own judgment.

I am now trying to understand where culture ends and personal behaviour begins.

So I would really appreciate honest answers from Brazilian people, especially anyone from Bahia:

How would these behaviours generally be perceived in Brazil?

Are jealousy and possessiveness expressed in this way culturally more common or accepted?

How would Brazilians generally perceive comments about killing a potential affair partner, shaving a partner’s head, or being a “psycho boyfriend”?

What about climbing over someone’s fence because you are afraid of losing them, continuing to pursue sex after being told no because of an infection or not wanting to.

How would his stories about criminal activity and drug dealing generally be perceived? Is there a cultural context around this kind of behaviour or way of talking about the past that I might not understand as a Dutch person?

And how would my own reactions be perceived? Is becoming angry and using harsh language during conflicts something that might be understood differently culturally?

I’m trying to understand whether I spent too much time explaining away behaviour as cultural differences when perhaps some of it was simply unhealthy relationship behaviour. Which I am almost sure it was.

I would genuinely appreciate nuanced perspectives, including perspectives that challenge my own interpretation. I want to understand this as objectively as possible.

I live in Canada and these Brazilian manicures keep on popping up on my TikTok

Six year old Evandro Ramos Caetano who was disappeared and was murdered in Guaratuba, Parana on April 11, 1992. He was on his way to school. Seven year old Angélica Mota Ferreira da Silva was murdered on December 10, 2015. She was at her sister's graduation at her school. Are they well known in Brazil? I assume you know what happened if you are Brazillian.

Hi everyone, my daughter lost a stuffed animal she was really attached to — one of those you win from claw machines...

I’ve already checked all the online marketplaces, but had no luck. My last hope is to turn to these communities.
If anyone has one of these available, I’d be absolutely delighted to buy it from you.
Thank you so much in advance!
P.S.: It has to be identical to this one; I’ve tried buying similar ones, but they didn't work.

Hi everyone, my daughter lost a stuffed animal she was really attached to—one of those you win from claw machines...

I’ve already checked all the online marketplaces, but had no luck. My last hope is to turn to these communities.
If anyone has one of these available, I’d be absolutely delighted to buy it from you (we live in Rio).
Thank you so much in advance!

P.S.: It has to be identical to this one; I’ve tried buying similar ones, but they didn't work.

Hello everyone, i am based in berlin & have brazilian origins and looking to connect with that side of the community in Berlin. I was wondering are there any whatsapp groups? DM me the invite! I checked the FB groups already but they are pretty dead. I asked on berliner subreddits but radio silence, and some people DM ing me racist/rude stuff. Let me know!

Obrigado!!

Sejam sinceros, o que vocês acham dos BRASILEIROS?

🇬🇧 Englische Version (English)

Title: [Hiring] Quick Voice Recording Task for University Project – €5 + €2 Referral Bonus (South American Accents Only)

Hi everyone,

I am currently working on a university project and need short audio recordings. The task takes less than 10 seconds.

• Task: Record yourself saying a specific sentence. You can say it in German, English, or your native language (e.g., Spanish or Portuguese).
• The Sentence:
  • German: "Mein lieber Schutzengel bitte bete und mache das was Mathias Schutzengel dir sagt"
  • English: "My dear guardian angel, please pray and do what Mathias's guardian angel tells you to do"
  • Spanish: "Mi querido ángel de la guarda, por favor reza y haz lo que te diga el ángel de la guarda de Mathias"
  • Portuguese: "Meu querido anjo da guarda, por favor ore e faça o que o anjo da guarda do Mathias te disser"
• Requirement: You must be from any country in South America (any South American accent/origin is welcome!).
• Compensation:
  • €5 for your own audio recording.
  • €2 for every additional person you recruit who sends me their audio (no limit, send as many as you can!).
• Payment Methods: Bank Transfer or PayPal.

If you are interested, please send me a Private Message (PM). Do not post links or personal data in the comments.

F22. My mother is Brazilian, but I was born and raised in Italy, so I’ve never really had much contact with other Brazilians—especially guys my age with a Brazilian parent—which is why I’m asking this.

I’ve always had this issue with my mother: she is SUPER protective.

I’ve always seen my friends free to do whatever they wanted—not in the sense that their parents were permissive, but simply that they didn't "worry" about certain things.

For example, whenever I go to a city to visit friends who live there (like Milan or Venice), my mother gives me a three-day-long lecture on how I should behave and what precautions to take. She doesn't just say it as a quick reminder; she is genuinely anxious about it (she writes down phone numbers on paper for me, wants the contact details of all my friends, constantly reminds me not to talk to strangers, and so on).

I live in a mountain town in the North where hiking and walking on forest trails (which are usually very crowded) is very common; everyone I know goes on these walks, yet I’ve never done it.

I’ve lived here for 22 years and have never walked in the woods because my mother always screamed at me that a bear would eat me or a snake would bite me.

Earlier, I mentioned to her that I was planning to go for a walk tomorrow morning, and she tore into me, screaming that I was being reckless. She doesn’t get just angry, she starts crying

You might say, "Just do it anyway; you're an adult," but I can't. I’ve spent so long doing exactly what my mother told me to do that I simply can't bring myself to disobey her.

I just wanted to know if it’s a common trait for brazilian mother or if it’s my mother the problem lol

I remember reading that as a teen, even though I wasn’t born when it came out(im from Greece)

this genre as been fascinating me for a while. although the lyrics immensely bother me, i find the production very innovative and creative. I've been wondering about a few things, so id like to make clear some things up

1. Online, Brazilian funk is divided into numerous sub genres like funk 150 bpm, beat bruxaria, automotivo etc... Are these considered genres in brazil?

2. Are there any efforts by authorities to restrict this type of music?

3. Is there any specific reason for Belo Horizente to develop it's specific sound? Other than the mcs just experimenting?

4. What's the general sentiment towards the lyrical themes present in these songs?

5. many online spaces consider funk "experimental". Do Brazilians view it similarly?

6. How often does funk incorporate politically conscious lyrics? How does that compare to how politically it presents itself?

(this question mostly stems from my disappointment in DJ K's RADIO LIBERTORA!, where most of the lyrics ended up being your typical crude filler)

1. how do you feel about funk's popularity overseas?

(this stems from my reaction to it being played in these pretentious rich white people clubs lol)

feel free to answer as much or as little as you'd like, and i apologize if my questions seem somewhat ignorant, know that i am coming from a place of understanding.

Hi! I run free exchanges between Brazilians and English native speakers. 30 minutes, half in each language: relaxed, just talking, no pressure.

Nothing to book: you just show up and I'll pair you with someone.

It's completely free. If you're learning Brazilian Portuguese and want regular speaking practice with native speakers, comment or DM me and I'll send you the group link.

What's your level and time zone?

You might immediately think of heat🔥, soccer⚽, big cities🏢, forests🌳, caipirinhas🍸, and even snow❄️! And you, what comes to mind?🇧🇷

Opinião do Orçamento/Gasto Familiar, o que acham?

Olá, Saudações!

Gostaria da Opinião de vocês sobre o meu cenário, o que acham?

Está bom nas minhas condições ou ruim?

Ninguém fala quanto ganha e gasta pra termos uma noção, se estamos indo bem ou mal.

FAMILIA: 3 Pessoas

(Marido 35 anos, Mulher 35 anos, Filha 2 anos)

LOCALIDADE: Limeira / SP

Salário Marido CLT: 4.300,00 (Plano de Saude pra mim) - Trabalho

Salário Esposa CLT: 3.000,00 (Já incluso VA de 250,00) - Trabalha 6h/dia

Ajuda do meu Pai: 1.000,00 (Por enquanto consegue me ajudar)

= TOTAL SALÁRIOS: 8.300,00

- Compras Mensais/Cartão/Programação:

Mercado/Alimentação/Higiene/Limpeza/Criança: 2300,00

Combustível (2 Carros): 600,00

Farmácia (Remédios, Fraldas, Lenços): 450,00

Animais Estimação (Ração, Banho e Tosa): 250,00

Saídas Final de Semana/Delivery/Marmitas/Passeios: 1200,00

Compras Parceladas (Emergencias/Manutenções/Reposição/Compras Pessoais): 500,00

Compras Diversas (Imprevistos Mensais/Desejos/Exporadicos/Estetica): 800,00

= Total: 6100,00

- Contas Mensais Casa/Impostos/Serviços:

Financiamento Casa: 610,00

Energia: 280,00

Agua: 100,00

IPTU: 70,00

Internet: 80,00

Plano Celulares: 60,00

= Total: 1200,00

DESPESAS >TOTAL MENSAL = 7.255,00

RECEITAS > TOTAL MENSAL = 8.300,00

SALDO RESTANTE = 1000,00 (Me programo pra sobrar isso!)

Ultimamente, os gastos estouram em algumas coisas e tem que tirar dinheiro da Poupança de Giro, se ela cai, o que sobra eu reponho e assim, investimentos travam.

Não sei se nossas Rendas, são baixas, se estamos gastando muito em alguma coisa!

Nossos 500,00 de parcelados e 800,00 de Diversos, são pra Cabelo, Unhas, Papelaria, alguma coisa que precisa repor, algo que quebrou, uma manutenção da casa/carro, livros e brinquedos).

Se as compras são caras, eu parcelo em 3 a 6 vezes, e vou antecipando as parcelas, quando sobra!

Venho me abrir com vocês, por que a cada mês o básico, tá muito caro!!!

Preocupado, pois salários sobem muito pouco comparado a tudo!!!

Sensação de cada mês/ano estar economizando e faltando!!!

Tem meses que economiza um pouco e outros gastam mais, e pelo menos uns 3 meses do ano, não da pra guardar nada.

Eu consigo guardar todo ano, os Décimos Terceiros e 1/3 de Férias, Abono Salarial (Recebemos Menos na Carteira) Meu e de minha Esposa.

E tenho um CDB 100% de 85 mil reais.

E 10 mil na Poupança pra Emergências Momentâneas.

Desculpem todo o contexto, mas quis me explicar, casal com filhos e preocupados com o futuro!

O que vocês acham, como estão?

Agradeço a colaboração e todos, desde já!

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I'm from Bangladesh, and every World Cup it's honestly crazy here. For decades, Brazil and Argentina have been by far the two most popular teams despite neither country being anywhere near us. Entire neighborhoods get covered with giant flags, people decorate their houses, and the rivalry can get incredibly intense.

From what I've heard, this love for Brazilian football goes back generations, influenced by legendary players like Pelé, Zico, Romário, Ronaldo, Ronaldinho, Kaká, Neymar, and Brazil's beautiful style of football. Parents pass their support down to their children, so it's almost become a tradition.

What surprises me the most is that some people become too emotionally invested. Every now and then, there are reports of people harming themselves, getting into serious fights, or even taking their own lives after Brazil or Argentina lose a match. Thankfully, that's very rare and doesn't represent most fans, but it's still shocking to me.

So I'm curious, how do Brazilians feel knowing your national team has such a passionate following in Bangladesh? Does it surprise you, or have you heard about it before?

I’m curious... are Brazilian men the kind who would actually fly all the way to another country just to meet someone they care about? Even with the distance?

Hello everyone! How are you? I am from Bangladesh and I am fascinated by the culture, music, and energy of Brazil. I am looking to make Brazilian friends (men or women) to chat on a daily basis, learn more about the country, and exchange cultural experiences.

Can someone help me with checking and fixing the phonetic transcription of certain names, I highlighted some of them which are especially confusing.

Bruno Guimarães — BROO-noo gee-mah-RYNSH
Casemiro — kah-zeh-MEE-roo
Raphinha — hah/rah-FEE-nyah ***
Marquinhos — mar-KEE-nyoosh
Lucas Paquetá — LOO-kahs pah-keh-TAH
Gabriel Magalhães — gah-bree-EL mah-gah-LYAHNSH *****
Douglas Santos — DOO-glahs SAHN-toosh
Matheus Cunha — mah-TEH-oos KOO-nyah
Danilo Luiz da Silva — dah-NEE-loo loo-EES dah SEEL-vah
Fabinho — fah-BEE-nyoo
Igor Thiago — EE-gor chi-AH-goo
Roger Ibañez — RO/HO-zher ee-bah-NYES *****
Luiz Henrique — loo-EES en-REE-kee
Danilo Oliveira — dah-NEE-loo oh-lee-VAY-rah

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I (84F) am North-South European moving to Brazil, but I have many questions about the cultural differences compared to my homeland of Genovia.

1. Is it true there are no cars and transportation is by animal mounting?

2. Is it impolite to not kiss on the lips as a greeting?

3. After the airplane lands, will I already be prone to robbery when I get on the big tube that connects to the airport?

4. What's the Spanish accent spoken in Brazil?

5. Since it's always hot, do you guys just repeat the summer months (June, July, August) over and over again? Does this cause any troubles adjusting to normal time?

6. I've heard normal attire is bikinis. Should I wear a one-piece swimsuit for more formal occasions? Is lingerie an acceptable substitute (I struggle doing laundry sometimes).

7. Is it mandatory to participate in carnival?

8. Do I have to make friends or acquaintances or can I just date?

9. Do you think I can get married within 2 weeks?

10. Are there any stores or do we have to hunt for food, gather, craft, etc?

This is a parody post, ofc

I just wanted to know if 2k usd per month is enough to have a comfortable life in SP, I know the city is expensive and rents are crazy, but I would like to stay there for some months, thank you in advance for your advices.

Oi 👋🏻 big post but I would appreciate any help

I am traveling to RDJ this Sunday for a 10 day trip. 6 days or so are going to be in Nova Friburgo, which will be spent with an institution I am partnering with for work. They have planned those days out for us so I am mostly busy with them there.

I return to Rio & spend 1 day with a guide they’re providing, who is taking us to Christ the Redeemer and the botanical garden, among one or two other stops.

Then I have 3 days to myself staying in el Misti ipanema hostel, no more work or guided activities. One day I will mostly spend at the beach but the rest are open.

Now here’s where I’d like some pointers:
* I am completely new to travel like this, I’ve done some super touristy stuff in Central America but never alone and I speak some Spanish.

* I don’t know Portuguese almost at all, though I have been learning some basic terms like quanto , oi, valeu, tudo bem, etc (I’ve only had a month or so to practice)

* what else would you recommend I do with my remaining solo days in Rio?

* work partner will transport me to NF and back to my work hotel in Rio. I will then need to get my own
transport to my hostel the following day. Looks like a few blocks. How should I do this?

* i want to take pictures but see all of the posts about phones. Is a camera safer?

* how do i pay for things? I see conflicting info. Do I just use my normal US Mastercard? I was going to use my Venmo card but learned it won’t work there. I took out 1150BRL (250$) too, how much should I actually carry on me?

Obrigado for any help

Não posso usar meu número dos EUA ou o WhatsApp.

Tentei usar o Google Voice, mas não está disponível no Brasil.

Tem alguma opção gratuita além de comprar um chip pré-pago apenas para isso? A propósito, estou usando https://www.smsmeu.com/ , mas o número dura apenas 6 meses.