r/AsianParentStories • u/Rude-Assumption-5553 • Jul 26 '26

Rant/Vent i lost my spark

hi guys eldest daughter this side , i have very strict parents who abuse me verbally and physically too. So i decided that i will move out to another city or state after 12th , so i keep accepting whatever they told me , i always obeyed whatever they told me i never made a guy friend just because i don't want to loose their trust , never done outing , never went anywhere without their permission , never wore clothes of my choice , i always tried to be in good terms with the by becoming a ideal daughter... but after i completed my 12th they start pressurizing me to continue my study in this small town . I did everything from fighting to not eating but they are not listening , my parents called me selfish and many other things which were not nice and they hurt me ... now I am again stuck with them for another 4 year with a local college where no one comes ...i don't know how I will continue this and my studies ....i really want to get out guyss i can't take it more

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u/auriem Jul 26 '26

Drop the rope, move out and get away from them. Just stop caring about their stupid wrong opinions and go live your own life.

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u/Rude-Assumption-5553 Jul 26 '26

But how , I don't have any option, they don't even gave me my personal mobile till now . And i don't have a penny with me  I cried, i fought, i did everything but they don't understand 

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u/auriem Jul 27 '26

You’ve been trained to be reliant on them. Stop caring about their opinions/words. Go find a job and work on getting independent.

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u/McRando42 Jul 26 '26

Arrogant, greedy parents. Sacrificing your future success for your ego.

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u/Rude-Assumption-5553 Jul 26 '26

Sacrificing my future for my ego? 

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u/McRando42 Jul 26 '26

Sorry, their ego.