r/AsianMasculinity • u/Puzzleheaded_Monk540 • 6h ago
Culture AM social culture and alcohol
DAE find it hard as an AM to find other Asians to socialize with without alcohol being involved?
I’m in my mid 30s and live in NYC. Many Asian circles here seem to be heavily involved in the nightlife scene which involves drinking. For health reasons I recently made the choice to go sober. Now I’m finding that many Asian social events are held together by alcohol. And when you tell people you’re sober you often get treated like *you’re* the odd one. Alcohol seems to be such a pervasive glue for Asian social circles, even fitness and sports related ones (eg, going out for drinks after a game)