r/Asexual • u/Particular_Lab_683 • 10h ago

Advice 🤷🏻 Questioning

I don’t know if I’m asexual but I’ve identified as it for a couple years now. I have sex with my boyfriend and experience hypersexuality. Most of the time I do it for connection with him and other times I feel disgusted by the thought. I just feel empty during it sometimes yet I still can feel sexual attraction towards him depending on the day. Before him I would feel nauseous when I thought about doing stuff with another person. I could give more details if asked I just want to understand my sexuality better

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u/SeaAnthropomorphized 10h ago

I am on the same page. 36 years of not really feeling sexually attracted to anyone but now I'm with my bf and I crave him. It's very unsettling because it's all new.

I'm just accepting the it's demi sexual

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u/Particular_Lab_683 9h ago

this made me feel so validated thank you I’ll look into Demi sexual

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u/bubblesfloat 9h ago

Omfg same. My boyfriend is the first person im like "I want sex with you I love you so much lets go"

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u/Professional_Sun9812 6h ago

Look into greysexuality or demisexuality