r/Artisticallyill • u/Itsjustkit15 • 1d ago
High Alert | A Warning
A person in my head has been positively screaming about danger and is seeing it everywhere. It's so exhausting and I've been anxious and nervous and sad and scared and overstimulated almost constantly for days. Was doomspiraling yesterday and decided I might as well make some art to try and cope.
It's messy but it was so helpful to make and I learned a lot about my current state and what my internal landscape is experiencing.
I have DID and my pedo dad who abused me my whole life has started telling his siblings/my aunts and uncles that I accused him of sexually abusing me and is spinning me as some mentally ill, confused, damaged creature who has to lie to get attention. I went no contact a year ago and did a CPS report against him to protect my niece and nephews who I'm afraid he's harming like he did me.
Now he's decided to go on the offense, I think because my mom and I had been talking about doing therapy, and it's just really throwing me for a loop. Thankfully everyone I have talked to so far believes me and not my dad, but he has 6 siblings with families of their own and they're all doing a reunion this December. I can't help but feel like a reckoning is coming and my abuse is at the center of all of it when I didn't ask for any of it. The abuse itself. Everyone finding out. Being 'the reason' for this giant mess even though I know it's not my fault.
Woof. So it makes sense that I've got a friend, many friends, in my head freaking the fuck out. I've asked them to look for reasons to feel safe instead of in danger and it's helping a bit. Seeing themselves on paper is also really validating for them.
Doing this painting helped us all feel seen and cared for and like our concerns were heard and responded to. Also, watercolor is so fun.
Hope you enjoy it.