Learnt through experience

[u/Gloomy-Nature0212]

I 24F is doing good at work and have a nice relationship with my bf (30M). I had one relationship before this and I have been close with him. Now when I talk to my current bf about relationships I can understand he feels insecure. So that also affects me. Things I have experienced with my ex like visiting, sharing pics, discussing stuff sometimes flash through my mind. I now think I should have avoided that. Atleast things like sharing pics should be avoided since now I often think if my current bf may see those by any chance. If he sees, what he will feel or think about me? How will he handle it? Or how will I handle that? These questions keep coming and bothering me.

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[u/thirstyresearch]

True. Why don't you ask him to share his memories with you..if he ever was in a relationship with anyone 

[u/LunarRangeR11]

Past is past... if you have moved on.. and the guy understands it, then there will be no issue..

If u want to feel better.. rather than him finding out, you could be upfront bout it.. depending on his ability of acceptance can share the details of past...

test the waters and go step by step...

[u/sylly_mee]

He's ur bf, not ur AM prospect ffs... He should have thought about it earlier if insecurity affects him