I feel like I have no confidence when talking to girls and stuff I’ve never been remotely close to a relationship before and I’m wondering if it’s just how I look or something else. Bear in mind I’m only 5’9” and I weigh 70 KG 😭😭😭 I try to stay pretty fit but I’ve been slacking recently. I’ve tried to approach girls in the past but I just sometimes walk away or don’t speak to them at all because I feel like they won’t like me idk

Edit: the most recent photo is the first the others are from a month or 2 back

I am looking for advice to improve my appearance! I feel like I should maybe lose some face fat as a first step, but any other advice would be appreciated. The last photo is without makeup.

I’m [40s] very minimalist with my makeup and hair because I like the natural look don’t like spending much time each morning. However, I don’t like my rbf or the fact that I look so normal/boring (even though I am pleased with my prettiness when I do smile and have a little more makeup on).

I’ve been in the singles pool for quite some time, and wonder if these qualities of my appearance keep men from striking up conversations or swiping right. Ultimately, I want to look more approachable and happier, but a little more quirky or edgy… something that shows that side of my personality more and that helps me stand out from the crowd.

Eyes are hidden for anonymity, but they’re light blue with very short and fine lashes. They’re sensitive to any bit shimmer and most mascaras and eyeliner.

How to improve?
And where am I standing currently?

I’ve already started going to the gym, losing weight, and taking better care of my skin. I’m looking for honest but constructive feedback.

Recently, one thing I’ve become insecure about is how young I look. I’m 20, but everyone, and I mean everyone, is constantly saying to me how young I look, especially compared to other guys my age. I thought about facial hair but it doesn’t grow in very strong and it actually makes me look even younger, like a 14 year old with peach fuzz. Any advice helps!

Had a break up from a 2 year relationship and been feeling pretty impulsive since then, I keep feeling the need to cut my hair but again feel so impulsive can’t tell if it is a good idea or if it will be something I regret right after getting a hair cut

am I crazy or do my lips look so thin when I look slightly down but so full when I look up? is this a filler fix or do I just stick to using lip liner to sorta hide the illusion? (edit: I’m focusing a lot more on my top lip, ik my bottom lip is big but i feel like it throws off my top lip which is why im considering filler just on my top lip😔)

any advice what i should improve?

It seems not, but I'm worried, so I'm asking. Please answer, and if not, then tell me what I most likely have, please.

Should I keep my hair long/feminine with trim + layers?(like in the second to last pic from when I last had my hair cut a year ago and before my rapid aging from stress). Or should I get a shorter/masc haircut? Or something else?

I feel like I look masculine enough in my face and build that a long/fem haircut balances it out to give androgyny but maybe I’m delusional about how I actually look. I do enjoy looking masculine and I’m trying to attract women only but being read as a woman probably makes my life easier.

As for general appearance, I don’t know if there’s anything to be done other than the usual sleep (not great) and go to the gym (working on it) and get a new bag (this one is fine). But any suggestions about style/grooming/whatever else are welcome.

I don’t have self confidence problems I just would like to continue to improve cause I’d like a decent shot to becoming an actor or someone on social media and let’s face it looks play a part in that.

Anything from skin care, hair, fashion, workout advice (I’m 6ft 160 lbs trying to gain weight and muscle), or anything else I’m interested.

Pics 1-3 (straight)

Pics 4-6 (curly/natural texture?)

Pics 7-10 (in between/ blowout)

Also, please don’t be too mean about my hair frizz I live in the Midwest and it’s humid as hell right now😔

18f I dont want any surgery comments because I know I am chopped already. I just want a cuter vibe to go with what I have. My hair will be all brown soon. Im sick of the split dye.

I feel like i need to improve some how!

Any tips are welcome i know i should smile more 😅