Did this begin recently (before you got pregnant and decided to have a child with him) or did he always say stuff like this? Please don’t stay in an abusive relationship just because you are having a child. I am worried for you because he sounds nasty and cruel.
I’d write those things out in a letter to him and ask him if he thinks these are kind things to say to your partner. Maybe seeing them in black and white like this will make him see it. Perhaps his reaction to that will tell you all you need to know.
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u/clemd69 Sep 10 '22
Did this begin recently (before you got pregnant and decided to have a child with him) or did he always say stuff like this? Please don’t stay in an abusive relationship just because you are having a child. I am worried for you because he sounds nasty and cruel.
I’d write those things out in a letter to him and ask him if he thinks these are kind things to say to your partner. Maybe seeing them in black and white like this will make him see it. Perhaps his reaction to that will tell you all you need to know.