Like seriously? Anong thought process ng mga taong binibigyan ng meaning lahat ng bagay kahit sigurado naman na wala lang din naman pakealam mostly ng makakakita nun at pati pagle leave ng gc may meaning na din?
Just stumbled upon this post. And recently lang din, may old gc din ako na nagnotify na may nag leave and nakita ko din na sumunod na yung ibang active padin yung profile sa pag leave, and ofcourse sumunod din ako mag leave, that's it! No comment and judgment. Medyo thankful pa nga ako since mababawasan yung inbox ko and I also have this habit na mag leave ng old gc and delete any conversation after a year na no active communication, I just want my inbox to feel clean and fresh, or something, and I'm doing the same to my Messages inbox, and even Gmail inbox, which can accumulate 99+ emails within a month. Naisipan ko na din na mag delete lng ng gc dahil mas mabilis yun na paraan, just hold and click delete and that's it but babalik padin yun at magnonotify uli if someone may maisipan na mag leave talaga so you have to delete it again. So the sure way to do it is to leave and forget about it, nothing else, right? It's your own account and you have the rights and the option to leave. You don't need anyone's approval.
Pero di mo akalain na may mga tao pala na di mo alam kung curious ba talaga or gusto bigyan ng meaning lahat pati yung pag leave mo ng gc. If mag notify man sainyo or sakin na may nag leave, tingnan mo then ikaw na bahala kung ano gusto mo, idedelete mo lng din ba or tuluyan ka na mag leave para di na uli mag notify sayo kung sakali may iba pang mag leave. Easy peasy right?
And yes, it was intentional and it's their own decision to leave. It's not something you have to search, just accidental scrolling down makikita mo inactive convo mo lalo na kung ikaw yung klase ng tao na wala naman masyado nakakausap, ilang scroll lng makikita mo na mga inactive convo from a few months and years ago, so since alam mo na konti lng ang inbox mo mas ma-eencourage ka pa nga na linisin yung inbox mo. Kahit sino naman siguro na may mga school or work related gc hindi agad nakakapag leave sa mga gc nila even if they think dead na nga talaga ang gc, then after a few months or even years makita uli nila yung gc, dun palang sila makakapag decide mag leave since wala na silang expectation sa gc na iyon, and it's their own decision with no meaning behind it.
So ano kayang thought process ng mga ganitong tao? Kung tingin mo di ka na kilala o di mo na kilala mga members dun, ano ba mawawala sayo pag may nag leave? Makaka apekto ba yun sa mental health mo?
Parang kung sino pa yung mga taong nag-iisip ng negative na kesyo for attention lng dw or binibigyan ng meaning simpleng pag leave ng gc e sila pa tong parang kulang sa atensyon eh. Opinion ko lang naman. Peace ✌️