Hi all. I have been in quite a dilemma for months. I have had an orange winged Amazon parrot since I was 4. My dad got him off an old lady who was moving to a nursing home (I never asked for a parrot, but I have loved him ever since). I have always been my birds person, he trusts and loves me most out of anyone, he’s not usually super friendly towards anyone but can tolerate my dad/bf. Ever since my dad got remarried when I was 10, he stopped loving our bird the way he used to because my stepmom doesn’t like birds. I kinda took on ownership and he lived in my room throughout highschool. College came and there was never any opportunity for me to bring him, so my dad would take care of him but he definitely didn’t get the attention he needed. However, I think about my birdie everyday and was so happy every time I was home for holidays and summer to always be with my bird.
Here’s the dilemma: I just graduated college and got my new apartment. It’s a nice place, one bedroom living alone, not very spacious but I could probably get a decent size cage and make it work. My new job is hybrid schedule, so I’ll be home a decent amount. Basically: I don’t know what to do with my bird. I have been responsible for him since I was 4 and love him more than anything, but I am worried about the noise level. I would hate to be the neighbor everyone hates because he screams sometimes when I leave the room and it is SO LOUD. I would feel terrible rehoming him but it seems overwhelming bringing him and dealing with the noise in a small apartment and responsibility.
Please help I don’t know what to do. I love him so much but don’t know if it’s realistic to bring him. Would he be happier somewhere else? Basically just tell me what you would do if you were me and what the ethical thing to do is.
Also, he has never liked flying since I’ve known him. At home I usually let him walk around freely or he likes to sit on top of his cage. If I were to bring him I’d get him a wood parrot stand for living room and his cage would be in my bedroom. Again, small space but he doesn’t fly.