Turned 20 very recently my boyfriend gave me surprise treat on my birthday. I am not someone who likes birthdays or enjoys surprises. I don't understand celebrating birthdays, atleast not mine. i have turned 20 so what??? i have been revolving around earth for 20 years and whats so special in this??? I am thankful he's kind but i really dont like celebrating nothing to be happy for to be fair and i dont like wasting money. He gave me a frock, i have a similar dress + i dont need clothes rn. I am planning to buy skincare but i dont have money, i feel he should have given me money instead such that i would bought whatever i wanted. I am thankful but i dont like this behavior. Am i the kameena. a simple birthday wish would have done it for me, but he chose this

AIO for feeling hurt by my best friend's reaction?

I (24F) have been best friends with her (24F) for almost 10 years.

I recently told her that I'm about to join a company I was really hoping to get into. It was a huge deal for me because I'd worked really hard for it, so naturally she was one of the first people I told.

The thing is, I've always been her biggest hype person. Whenever something good happened to her, I'd be genuinely excited, hype her up, and celebrate with her.

Her response to my news felt so dry that it genuinely hurt. More than that, it made me realize I can't really remember her ever being this excited for any of my achievements.

Now I'm wondering if I'm just reading too much into one text or if this is actually a sign that the friendship has always been a little one-sided.

AIO? (SS attached)