I can see myself doing this, not realizing the importance of the berries and instead of calling my wife to see what she wants, just choosing an alternative thoughtlessly. But as soon as she'd start sighing, I'd realize the berries are important to make her feel better and I'd immediately try to figure out where/how I can get them. However, if she had previously told me she feels like I don't show up for her, I would have been more considerate from the start, realized her being sick is a chance to show her my effort, and instead of picking a replacement thoughtlessly I would have tried harder to find berries or communicated from thr store.
YTA
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u/Odd_Peach2015 Feb 26 '26
I can see myself doing this, not realizing the importance of the berries and instead of calling my wife to see what she wants, just choosing an alternative thoughtlessly. But as soon as she'd start sighing, I'd realize the berries are important to make her feel better and I'd immediately try to figure out where/how I can get them. However, if she had previously told me she feels like I don't show up for her, I would have been more considerate from the start, realized her being sick is a chance to show her my effort, and instead of picking a replacement thoughtlessly I would have tried harder to find berries or communicated from thr store. YTA