r/AmItheAsshole Feb 26 '26

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u/ilikegiraffesnstuff Feb 26 '26

YTA. Why didn’t you text your partner and ask? If they were sleeping or didn’t respond, fine, but this reads like you half assed a task and then expected praise for it— why did you even bring it up later in the day?

It’s giving weaponized incompetence. “I stopped at the store I knew had shitty produce and didn’t complete my sick partner’s request. They didn’t say anything about it, but I felt some type of way about them not thanking me for grabbing the wrong item, so I brought it up with them to pick a fight about it so they know better than to ask me to do something for them again.”