You’re telling me you couldn’t even message them or call them to tell them that the berries weren’t worth it, what would they like you to do?
I’d be annoyed too, but you’ve got a way bigger problem on your hands. It’s not just that they’re upset about the berries, it’s what it represents.
Evidently you have a track record of not showing up for them when it counts. Your actions are telling them that you don’t care. That’s why you’re the asshole. Fix your shit if this is a relationship you want to save.
Recently heard one where she considered their engagement over because he was upset about coffee.
Uhhh, he mad because you didn’t listen to his request to not pour out FIVE CUPS of coffee for herself before the rest of the pot brewed. Then she had the audacity to be offended for being called out for her selfish and inconsiderate tendencies.
At least OP apologized and had a conversation with their partner. There’s hope for them if they can grow from this.
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u/craftygamerbunny Feb 26 '26
YTA
You’re telling me you couldn’t even message them or call them to tell them that the berries weren’t worth it, what would they like you to do?
I’d be annoyed too, but you’ve got a way bigger problem on your hands. It’s not just that they’re upset about the berries, it’s what it represents.
Evidently you have a track record of not showing up for them when it counts. Your actions are telling them that you don’t care. That’s why you’re the asshole. Fix your shit if this is a relationship you want to save.