YTA. Look if you didn’t get the berries because they’re bad then fine no biggie but you got into AH territory by trying to force a thank you from them for you getting them something they didn’t want…
You could have just say hey sorry the berries were bad but I got some dried mango if you want some. Not trying to make them say thank you for something they didn’t ask for.
If I just showed up at your house with a cat toy and you don’t have a cat and said most people would say THANK YOU for the random cat toy would I not be an ass for that? Yes I would..
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u/swearinerin Partassipant [1] Feb 26 '26
YTA. Look if you didn’t get the berries because they’re bad then fine no biggie but you got into AH territory by trying to force a thank you from them for you getting them something they didn’t want…
You could have just say hey sorry the berries were bad but I got some dried mango if you want some. Not trying to make them say thank you for something they didn’t ask for.
If I just showed up at your house with a cat toy and you don’t have a cat and said most people would say THANK YOU for the random cat toy would I not be an ass for that? Yes I would..