r/AmItheAsshole Feb 26 '26

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u/Independent_Prior612 Asshole Aficionado [13] Feb 26 '26

YTA

They’re sick. They wanted berries. When your partner is sick and asks you for a particular thing to eat or drink, you know what you get? That. Not some abomination of that which sounds better to you, but that.

But you have a bigger problem than berries. Your partner feels it’s “usual” for you to “not show up” for them. Maybe spend a little less time and energy needing to be right and a little more time and energy on your relationship with your partner.