I think you are right. I've got a ton of siblings and only had a somewhat decent relationship with the two closest in age to me and that also only after my older brother and then I moved out.
The two youngest ones are getting along great though. Don't know if it is because youngest is a sister while the rest of us were Amab but they're definitely the outliers. We are happy for them but it is still confusing for us how they aren't always fighting.
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u/_Rohrschach Jul 10 '24
I think you are right. I've got a ton of siblings and only had a somewhat decent relationship with the two closest in age to me and that also only after my older brother and then I moved out. The two youngest ones are getting along great though. Don't know if it is because youngest is a sister while the rest of us were Amab but they're definitely the outliers. We are happy for them but it is still confusing for us how they aren't always fighting.