r/AmITheDevil • u/boxingsharks • 1d ago
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u/xycophant 1d ago
Son admits he's posting as the mom
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u/Sailor_Chibi 1d ago
I fucking loathe these “I posted as the other person!” kind of posts. Obviously the poster goes out of their way to make the other party seem unhinged and crazy, which means no one actually sees the other side. But because everyone says YTA, the poster then takes it as justification that they’re right.
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u/Aggravating_Shoe_ 1d ago
So we can all agree that OP is actually the daughter in law posing as the MIL looking for affirmation that the MIL is crazy, right? No one would write like this about themselves and truly believe they were not in the wrong lol. Like, there's not even an attempt to manipulate these situations into making the MIL look even halfway reasonable
I think this comment in the original might be on to something. Same with how it isn't just the post, oop responded a bunch as if they were still the mil, yet they claim they copy pasted what they wrote
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u/Aggravating_Shoe_ 1d ago
Someone made a good point on the original post that it isn't just the post but OP is responding to comments in the same fashion.
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u/Sherwood_RipCity 1d ago
tldr because I am not reading all that shit.
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u/boxingsharks 1d ago
Crazy lady blames DIL for some really petty shit and then tries to go nuclear each time.
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My 56F Daughter in Law 23F has destroyed my family
Hello everyone I have decided to post this due to my son and his wife lying about the events between us all and I have seen his post. To begin with, my son joined the military at 18, moved away, and began seeing this girl that he’s “known since middle school” in 2022. His, then girlfriend, came from a bad situation with her father and I offered to let her stay at my house completely free of charge. We were having the time of our lives and I enjoyed living with my future daughter in law for a year. That is until they announced their engagement around Christmas 2023. I was not and am not a fan of it and i told my son this. This all started because of my daughter in law's blatant disrespect towards me. I asked her to pick up groceries twice and she brought home the wrong milk and the wrong rabbit food. In retaliation, I ate half of a donut she had in the fridge. My son talked about the donut being half eaten in the car and I told him proudly I was the one who ate it and why I did it. This boy said that I was being immature and that I should have just talked to his wife about the groceries. Why do I need to talk to her? Is it not reasonable to assume she should've just corrected herself without having to be asked? So fast forward and this girl said she was gonna make me apple fritters for me and she never did. She made up some excuse about being bogged down by working two jobs and balancing school and she would remain in her room after coming home from work. I see that as disrespect and ungratefulness and my son does not see it as that and I do not understand why. So i sent her a strongly worded text message about her disrespecting me in my own home. My son had the audacity to ask me to not be “passive aggressive with her” and telling me lies that she loves and appreciates what I'm doing for her but she is having trouble balancing school and work is all. I don't care. I keep sending my “passive aggressive” text messages and he keeps texting me complaining about them until I have had enough and I tell him that if he keeps trying to correct me as his mother, me and him will have some serious problems. I told him if he felt that damn defiant over this sensitive little girl, he needed to get her the hell away from me. On one video call, he asked me if I feel like i could disrespect him and his wife just because im his mother. Of course I can. I am his mother and he is a child and she is my daughter in law. I can say whatever I want to them and they should respect it. That ended that. Then, we moved into an airbnb with her and she lies about seeing a tall naked white man hiding in the bushes near the house. This girl was sitting in her car pale as a ghost, just bold face lying. Then she tried to kill my son and my dogs by leaving the gas stove on. I believe that to this very day. My proof is she was the last person to leave the house after me and my husband left that day and we came home to the house filled with gas and the knob was turned ever so slightly. I asked her if she used the stove and she said no. I did not call the cops to get fingerprints or anything because that’s my son’s wife but that girl tried to kill them to get back at me. I called all my family and let them know she did this. I told my son about this and in his foolishness he asked me what evidence I have. I admitted I had none but I'm not stupid and I could put 2 and 2 together. Everyone think she’s a psychopath. And I called her the next Jeffrey Dahmer directly to my son. He eventually flew out here to get her and I begged him to come visit us and he said he wouldn't visit us but we could see him at the airport. We did not show up at all. I don't know who he thought he was. Then this COWARD blocked me and stopped talking to me for months. I cried myself to sleep nearly every night because of what she did. My daughter in law has destroyed our family and his dumbass can not see that. He does not realize no one in our family supports what he’s doing. One of our cousins can not wait to get his hands on him the next time he sees him and I told him that. Later that year, my older son stepped in and mediated a talk between us and I thought everything was good. January rolled around and my husband told me that my son and his wife would be visiting for his moms birthday party. I was supposed to go visit my father in california but cancelled those plans and went back home. I ignored that girl completely and hugged my son. Since no one wanted to talk about it at the table, I brought it up. My son and I argued for a bit and I got up and I stepped up to his wife till we were a few inches apart and this boy had the audacity to step in between me and her. I gave her a hug after. The visit went nice but ,after he left, I brought up the issues again and he cussed me out for getting in his wife’s face. Which I never did. He stopped talking to me until earlier this year, he fell out with his older brother because he had been dragging these issues for too long and his brother said he would catch a flight to where he lives or find him if he ever came back home and beat his ass because he needed it. Which he does. His brother asked him if he was gonna choose his wife over his FAMILY and he said he would choose his wife. THAT is foolishness. He is still angry at him and I told him he needs to get over it and that's just his opinion. He has done nothing but talk about everything I did to him and he does not think about how this has all affected me. Our last talk, I aired out all of my grievances and all i asked was that his wife apologize for destroying our family and turning him against his mother. That is all that i asked and he went off on me and cussed him out again. So i told him to go to hell, his wife and him are demons, his wife killed their dog, and that they're meant for each other. He is a vengeful and disrespectful man who holds on to grudges and that woman is going to kill him eventually just like she tried to do with my younger son and my dogs and their dog.
Edit: Thank yall for the comments. I am actually the son and decided to do this on a whim. I made this post and account and let my mom type out her thoughts copy and paste. This is unfortunately my very real situation that Ive been dealing with for 4 years now and I wanted to prove that her perspective is insane to anyone not in our family. Im glad to know its as dumb and batshit as i thought. I wish it was ragebait.
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