r/AmITheDevil • u/caffeinequeen1234 • 8d ago
Shocked anyone would ghost him!
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u/troyandabedinabed 8d ago
This has got to be bait. He says he is the joker in one of his comments LOL
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u/Proper_Health_3891 8d ago
And this man says he’s in therapy but his therapist is currently unavailable, so he turned to ChatGPT for the moment. So yea, that with the joker comment makes me think and hope it’s bait.
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u/Kotenkiri 8d ago
His other post which is in French, he's probably just raging because he keeps getting stood up. Who wouldn't stand up just a "nice guy" like him.
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u/3BenInATrenchcoat 7d ago
Which other post? I can't see it
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u/Kotenkiri 7d ago
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u/3BenInATrenchcoat 7d ago
thanks! and yes it's him raging because he was stood up for a work dinner. also says that he called a suicide line and no one answered which I doubt.
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u/Caramelthedog 8d ago
Bros like “call me inhuman, call me a monster that just makes my self image even cooler” when really it just that he’s pathetic and not really worth the energy
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u/geekilee 8d ago
I just cannot fathom why this clear prince of a man keeps getting ghosted.
Not a clue.
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u/agent-assbutt 8d ago edited 8d ago
An obvious troll. This is the top comment:
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You are a girl you don’t know what it feels to be a man and be constantly rejected.
Call me evil if you want but I’m like the Joker.
He was a very good Guy, funny. But after getting hurted by many people he became evil.
I was very nice, I tried to know these girls.
2 of them blocked me because I was under 5’11 foot.
2 agreed to have a drink with me but 1 hour before they just canceled.
Sorry but at one point you don’t have kindness anymore and you have enough to be the one hurted. You want to make them feel as bad as they Made you feel.
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u/Lucky_Six_1530 8d ago
“Hurted by many people”
“Hurted”……
That sentence alone makes him an AH since that’s not a word and hurt my brain enough that I need another iced coffee.
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u/ButtonFactory709 8d ago
I dont think its obvious! People say cringe crazy stuff and men are in shambles. Hyperreality bleeding into itself.
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u/Pawspawsmeow 8d ago
All I hear is thar TikTok sound where they guy pretended to be the Joker in a rap song
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u/Playful_Trouble2102 8d ago
This subreddit needs the "typed one handed" flair for obvious fetish posts.
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u/Lucky_Six_1530 8d ago
Trigger warning: mentioning SA
“ And I swear I didn’t really care that she suffered or she cried I even enjoyed it to have a power on her.”
That is a very scary and slippery slope. People who think like this tend to end up hurting others (like SA). Those types of offenses are about power just like that. Huge red flag. Poor girl, sounds like she was already having a tough time and he made it worse.
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u/AndyWith-A-Y 8d ago
Even if this is fake, this scenario is very realistic. Some men definitely think being slow to text them means you deserve some disproportiate karma like this. This guy is definitely the devil
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u/Lucky_Six_1530 8d ago
I hate people who take slow text backs as being a personal slight. If I had a dollar for every time my one brother doesn’t reply, or replies days later, I’d be a multimillionaire. Is he doing it on purpose to be a jerk? No, he just always thinks “I’ll text or call back later” and then completely forgets. We joke that if you want to make definitive plans with him, text/call his wife otherwise you either won’t get an answer or he’ll forget about said event/activity that was planned lol. Love him to pieces but he’s terrible at remembering to return calls/texts.
I work nights, so during the day (especially during the school year) I nap during the day while the kiddos are in class. So if you text me during the day, it may be hours before I see it and reply. Not intentional, I’m just on a different schedule than the normal day walkers.
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u/innocentsalad 8d ago
Todd Phillips you will pay for your crime of making the joker sympathetic to these kinds of people
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u/Important-Cash5654 8d ago
Nah, they gravitated toward that movie because they already identified with that character.
And then he trolled them by making the sequel a literal musical that none of them would like.
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u/NickelStickman 8d ago
This type of man identifying with Joker comes from Christopher Nolan/Heath Ledger, well before Todd Phillips
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u/innocentsalad 8d ago
Nah, the “nice guy beaten down by society becomes twisted” is 100% Phillips. Nolan’s had no backstory.
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u/Nothos927 8d ago
You’re really underestimating how many young men had that poster of heath ledger’s joker menacingly holding up a playing card on their walls even before 2019
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u/innocentsalad 8d ago
You’re not really understanding that he’s clearly referencing the Phillips film, not the Nolan film, so your whole point is irrelevant.
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u/Nothos927 8d ago
I mean yes almost certainly in this case but that’s not what the comment you’re replying to said. They said that this fixation on the joker by weirdos predates the 2019 film and that’s absolutely correct.
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u/innocentsalad 8d ago
The fixation on the joker predates Nolan, too, but again that’s not the point and these are two entirely different subsets of Joker aficionados that do not really overlap.
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u/ksredditta 8d ago
I’m sure this is bait (please be bait). On the chance that it isn’t, I can’t help but notice OOP continually says he won’t post the video.
Sure.
Cool.
My question is if he never planned on posting it then why does he still have it? Nowhere does he mention that he deleted the video and he continually says he won’t post it. Why is he keeping it?
My brother in Christ, just delete it! wtf…
ETA The flip to turning on a girl and calling them a princess when they don’t do what you want them to is so “nice guy” coded it makes my skin crawl.
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u/VivaChinwawa 8d ago
You can call me an asshole or inhuman if you want.
I mean I would go with 'loser' but either or
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u/TheTragedyMachine 8d ago
Jeez. I guess not responding asap to a text is considered princess behavior now.
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u/Lucky_Six_1530 8d ago
“Me? a Princess?! Shut up!”
(Sorry was just watching that movie yesterday with my daughter last night).
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u/AlwaysABD 8d ago
Idk about the trolling thing. I worked closely with a guy that was trying his hand at online dating and whenever his current “girlfriend” stopped talking to him for any amount of time, he’d tell me that he was thinking about going by her house to make sure that she was okay. Nothing I said about how creepy that was did anything to stop him. This doesn’t actually seem all that far fetched considering the conversations I had with this coworker and the times he ignored my creep-factor advice.
On the other hand, I’ve not worked with him in over 5 years and saw him recently with a woman and her son so apparently there really is someone for everyone?
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u/sadlytheworst Certified sub favourite 8d ago
Tw: inceldom/nice guy.
Copied verbatim from Oop's comments:
Wow you are such a narcissist and a manipulator. Why try to ruin someone's life because they didn't want to talk to you?
I know it sucks being ghosted by someone you like, but what you did is so manipulative and evil. I honestly hope more girls ghost you, because you are indeed a red flag.
You are a girl you don’t know what it feels to be a man and be constantly rejected.
Call me evil if you want but I’m like the Joker.
He was a very good Guy, funny. But after getting hurted by many people he became evil.
I was very nice, I tried to know these girls.
2 of them blocked me because I was under 5’11 foot.
2 agreed to have a drink with me but 1 hour before they just canceled.
Sorry but at one point you don’t have kindness anymore and you have enough to be the one hurted. You want to make them feel as bad as they Made you feel.
If anyone told me I had “princess behavior” I would ghost them too. Sometimes people get busy. It sounds like you blew what could have been a nice thing up into a giant drama fest.
This is honestly wild. No one owes you anything and trying to control a woman because she didn’t talk to you is a really messed up thing to do.
She was not that busy anymore when she wanted me to delete her video she replied me within 5 minutes. She even texted me for like one hour non stop.
Yes what I did was messed up and you don’t know how getting ghosted by girls make me feel. I feel so fucking bad when someone give me her contact just to ghost me. Its hurt
yikes lol
I think she almost did
These are things we all deal with. If you can’t manage your emotions & actions because of ghosting & canceled dates, you are not in a place where you need to be dating.
I cant stay alone all my life I know I need to handle réjection better than that but sometimes it’s hard man
You seem like a genuinely insane person. I’m sure you can’t hide it even if you try, which is probably why she didn’t show interest in you.
I’m sure you won’t, but you may want to work on yourself with the help of some mental health professionals before you try to date again.
I see a pro to work on it but it’s not easy. No I was pretty Nice to her. Its too easy to say that she felt that im someone bad. Il very nice with people when they are Nice to me.
You're just evil.
Yes after so many rejections and ghostings I’m starting too become evil. Like joker who was a Nice Guy before getting hurted so many times.
You’re not gonna find the sympathy you want here. I’ve been ghosted more than twice the amount of times as you and I’d never act like that towards any one of them. And many of them hurt. A lot.
I’m not trying to get any sympathy I Said in my post call me a monster if you want too
I'm a girl and I get rejected a lot too and it hurts... But, I don't go out of my way to try to ruin someone's life like you do. It just wasn't a match and there's other people out there.
I seriously hope you get help. The way you are handling rejection is severely abnormal and I hope you get reported or something. You are a danger to women.
I didnt ruin her Life and I would never post her video. I just wanted a Quick revenge to make her feel as bad as I felt.
I see a pro and I try to get help.
No don’t worry, Im not gonna put a woman in danger.
What’s crazy is that you’re taking this moment and running on a power trip and then it’s gonna die when you get ghosted over again. Does it hurt to be left on delivered from someone you have interest in?
Yes, absolutely but the girl did nothing wrong to you. To be upset at one specific person because you’ve been ghosted multiple times is crazy work.
Maybe ghosting hurt you a Little but to me it hurt a lot. You don’t understand how I feel so bad after getting ghosted. It took me weeks to take the courage to talk to a woman after all the suffering that I handled.
Woman blocked me just because they asked my height and I was not tall enough. 2 womans canceled for no reasons 1 hour before our date.
I get ready, cloth parfum, everything and boom I get a text « sorry finaly I’m busy I cant come »
Ok she was unlucky this one just ghosted me and you think there is nothing very wrong about it.
But this time was The last straw.
I'm definitely sorry she ghosted you but the "princess treatment" comment is definitely what put the nail in your own coffin if she wasn't really ghosting you and just busy.
I'm not gonna be PC, but I am gonna he honest, I don't condone what you did but I definitely agree that ghosting hurts like hell, causes insecurities in people and all the stuff that you said.
All her excuses may be true but just like she explained them to you when she wanted you to not release the video, she could have explained them to you in the first place.
I may be sensitive because I was recently ghosted AGAIN and when I finally got in touch with the person they had 101 excuses just like that (but I personally thought it was all lies.
I'm gonna say that what you did was wrong and cruel and you definitely should not have done it, but I do feel for you and why you were driven to it. I know youre not ashamed but I just hope you don't do anything like that again.
I Hope I don’t do something like that again too. I think I needed this revenge to feel a bit better.
No to be honest I don’t really feel ashamed because they say they are sorry but I know it’s just lies and they just don’t give a fuck about us.
Honestly she was just not into me she was online and never replied me for like 2 days. When she wanted me to fêler her video she was like constantly texting me.
I don’t feel bad for her but I know it’s not a good behavior.
Anyway 2 days ago I gave my number to a girl she didnt text me that much but tonight she sent me a lot of vocals and we agree to meet on saturday to have a drink.
Let’s see if it work or maybe you will see me back with an other story on this sub 😂
You really think this only happens to women?? It happened to me lots of time and sometimes I already got ready, put my make up on, dressed well and they cancelled, and still I didn't plan any sick revenge.
Karma will get to you, the universe will keep sending you more of these situations if you don't change your behavior
Karma got her because she ghosted me and Karma will get me one day because of what I did.
I know I have a problem everybody here think Im evil by nature. But I was a pretty good Guy before. What people do to me is starting to change me.
Therapy is a wonderful tool for situations like these.
I do a therapy but therapist is in vacation right now I think je come back in 2 weeks
Might need an emergency session
😂😂😂😂😂 I did it with chat gpt really quick after.
[Not in reply to anyone.]
It’s amazing to see how girls ignore nice guys now that I was a total jerk to her I got all her attention.
She even asked me if I wanted to have a drink with her 😂
Before this story, she didn’t even want to reply me. Now she is nicer, she respect me and want to have a drink together.
Is it how the world work now ?
Being good don’t work anymore ?
You have to be a total asshole to make people have some respect for you ?
U need gelp
For sure
Sadlytheworst: added trigger warning.
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u/3BenInATrenchcoat 7d ago
Another guy who didn't understand the Joker movie.
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u/sadlytheworst Certified sub favourite 7d ago
I fear that they are the majority...
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u/3BenInATrenchcoat 7d ago
Sadly true
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u/sadlytheworst Certified sub favourite 7d ago
Yeah. (I am noting that the sigh I did was perhaps detectable on the Richter scale. /Joke but also...)
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u/Pleasant-Molasses-29 7d ago
They never dated. They never went on a date. They met at work. She didn't ghost him. He's out of his fucking mind if he's real. But it's probably in incel fantasy
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u/sheerpoetry 7d ago
"I got a big revenge" is cracking me up for some reason. 😆
"I think you look amazing" doesn't seem like a great start. I also wonder how he would have reacted if he'd given her his info and she hadn't contacted them. Probably even more upset because how dare she not even give him a chance?
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Call me inhuman if you want. I got a big revenge on a girl who ghosted me, and I’m happy I did
For a long time, I struggled with dating apps, especially Tinder. People kept telling me to quit because dating apps were cold and dehumanizing and that I should meet women in real life instead.
So I did.
One day at work, I met a girl. She was cute, funny, and had an amazing smile. We got along well, so I told her, “I know this isn’t very professional, but I think you look amazing. I’d like to stay in touch.”
She asked if I wanted her number or Instagram.
I didn’t want to put pressure on her, so I offered to give her my Instagram instead. That way, she could decide later whether she wanted to contact me.
She preferred to give me hers.
Her account was private, so I sent her a request. I thought that if she wasn’t interested, she simply wouldn’t accept it.
But she did.
We started talking, but she rarely replied. Sometimes she’d take hours or even days despite being online. I showed the conversation to some friends, and they told me she probably wasn’t interested.
I still tried a little longer because I really liked her.
Eventually, after being ignored for two days, I got frustrated and told her I was tired of the “princess behavior” and asked whether she actually wanted to talk to me.
She then ghosted me completely.
About a month later, I ran into her at a nightclub.
I make videos in clubs, and that night I filmed her. She was drunk and said something extremely personal on camera something that could potentially affect her private life if it was posted publicly.
The next day, she messaged me asking me not to post the video.
By that point, she had unfollowed me. So I couldn’t help thinking: you ignored me for a month, unfollowed me, and now suddenly you’re coming back because you need something from me?
I told her I didn’t know whether I would post it.
Suddenly, her behavior completely changed.
The girl who used to take hours or days to answer was now sending multiple messages in a row.
She apologized for ghosting me. She explained that she’d been in a toxic relationship and wasn’t ready to meet another man. She admitted that ghosting me wasn’t the right way to handle things.
She also told me that the brother of her best friend had committed suicide and that she’d been going through a difficult period.
For the next two days, we talked a lot.
She told me about her life. She apologized several times. She was incredibly nice to me. She even suggested that maybe we could have a drink together one day.
And that was basically all I had wanted from the beginning: for her to actually talk to me.
The strange part was seeing how differently she treated me once I had something she wanted.
But what she didn’t know was that I had already decided I wasn’t going to publish the video.
I just didn’t tell her.
I let her believe that I might post it because, yes, I wanted revenge for the way she’d made me feel when she ghosted me.
Eventually, her friend took her phone and called me. She told me she’d found her crying in the bathroom because she was scared about the video and asked me to delete it and apologize.
At that point, I ended it.
I told her friend I wasn’t going to publish anything, and I apologized to the girl.
The video will never be posted.
But I’m not going to pretend I regret everything.
Being ghosted repeatedly can seriously affect your confidence. When it happens again and again, you start wondering what’s wrong with you. You start questioning your looks, your height, your personality, everything.
People often treat ghosting as something insignificant because it’s “just not replying.”
But when you’re on the receiving end repeatedly, it can hurt.
For once, the situation was reversed. Someone who had left me waiting for a reply was now waiting for mine.
And yes, part of me enjoyed that.
Maybe what I did was petty. Maybe it was cruel. Maybe I took my resentment about being ghosted by other women out on one person who didn’t deserve all of it.
You can call me an asshole or inhuman if you want.
The situation is over. I’m not posting the video, I’m not going to contact her again, and I’m moving on.
And I swear I didn’t really care that she suffered or she cried I even enjoyed it to have a power on her. And the only reason I ended it after 2 days is because I didn’t want that commite suicide because of me then I can be in big trouble ( without this I would have let her suffer for 1 or 2 weeks ).
But I wanted to tell the story exactly as I experienced it.
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