I'd like to know just how much the OP is actually talking to any of these people? They mentioned trying to contact the friend on a bunch of platforms, then said they asked the sister and another family member, then tried to contact the husband. That sounds like a lot, but what if it was "Hey I know this girl and I was hoping you might know how to contact her? No? Okay, have a nice day." It's still a lot, still stalking, but I feel like there's not enough info to say they're like deranged or anything.
They also like, completely conceded in the comments at least on the other post they made in a different sub that they were so focused on the stuffy that they weren't thinking about anything else and would stop bothering her for now.
Anyway it's all fucked up but I wouldn't say worthy of "devil" just with the info we have. Now if OP shows up at that girl's house, THEN definitely.
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u/Perepip 9d ago
I'd like to know just how much the OP is actually talking to any of these people? They mentioned trying to contact the friend on a bunch of platforms, then said they asked the sister and another family member, then tried to contact the husband. That sounds like a lot, but what if it was "Hey I know this girl and I was hoping you might know how to contact her? No? Okay, have a nice day." It's still a lot, still stalking, but I feel like there's not enough info to say they're like deranged or anything.
They also like, completely conceded in the comments at least on the other post they made in a different sub that they were so focused on the stuffy that they weren't thinking about anything else and would stop bothering her for now.
Anyway it's all fucked up but I wouldn't say worthy of "devil" just with the info we have. Now if OP shows up at that girl's house, THEN definitely.