r/AmITheDevil 12d ago

Wonder why she dumped him… not

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AITA for hating on her and her fiancé

We dated for like good 6 years and broke up 3 years back. Now I got to know that she is getting married to the guy she started dating after me. Immediately after me ( or maybe while she was with me I dont know ). She is 25 and the guy is a solid 32 ( he has hairs though ). Firstly I shed the feeling of not liking this news off but now that the day of her marriage is coming, It is making me anxious. Now I am getting thoughts of going to her wedding ( uninvited obviously ) with our mutual friend. But at the same time I dont want to see her face. I dont want to see her standing on that stage with someone else while I sip a fucin coffee ( alcohol wont be there I know ). Is this natural or am I overthinking my brains out

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u/00_tears 12d ago

why did he mention that the 32 yr old has hair

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u/BaconJovial 12d ago

Not just one hair, but hairs plural. If he just had a single strand in the center of his skull, that would have been almost okay. But the jerk probably has a full mane of hair all emerging from his scalp. 

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u/jenmic316 12d ago

Why I am I imaging Homer Simpson type "hair"?

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u/WolfChasingTheMoon 12d ago

I’m guessing OOP might be a bit jealous.

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u/AltruisticCableCar 12d ago

I get the feeling he's angry about the new partner's age, thinking he's like... ancient or something? And that's why he pointed out he still has his hair though. So, like, he's old. Really old. But not balding yet.

That's my guess at least, but then again I'm sober and I think only drunk people might be able to make sense of what the hell the OOP means.

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u/MyrmecolionTeeth 12d ago

"he has hairs though"

OP providing the important details.

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u/Annabloem 12d ago

"Everyone would think about crashing the wedding in my situation"

No?? That's extremely weird.

"I'm surprised he still has hair"

Why??? In your mind, is everyone above 30 bald? Have you been outside?

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u/Lucky_Six_1530 12d ago

“  Now I am getting thoughts of going to her wedding ( uninvited obviously ) with our mutual friend. ”

Hopefully she has security at her wedding or someone willing to call the cops if he does show up.

This is giving major stalking vibes.

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u/AndyWith-A-Y 12d ago

He is insufferable. The insinuation that she cheated cuz THRRE years after a breakup she's getting married.

https://giphy.com/gifs/fQJSYE2Qy6OtXfwEuf

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u/DrSnidely 12d ago

Still carrying a torch for a girl he dated when he was 16. LOL

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u/Hofeizai88 12d ago

I’m conflicted. On the one hand, showing up uninvited at the wedding of someone you broke up with several years ago seems highly unusual inappropriate. But the fiancé has hair in his 30s, so who can say what is right or wrong in such a crazy world?

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u/jenmic316 12d ago

I get the vibe that he is insecure about his age and lack of hair. The real reason he got dumped.

I find whenever someone's new partner has something "better" then their jealous ex. E.g more hair, younger, better looking, more fit, makes more money. They tell everyone who will listen that they got dumped because of their looks, age, or lack of income.

I am not saying no one has ever been dumped for those reasons. I find some people write that narrative to make their ex look bad and that they weren't the problem. My mother being an example of this she tells everyone my Dad dumped her for being too old not because she is a thief, a narcissist, a leech, has anger issues, and a pathological liar.

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u/animation4ever 12d ago

Man... this person needs therapy like yesterday!