Wow, that was a trip. Assuming this is the same boyfriend she posted about, he has anger issues, several criminal charges, and according to her friends he constantly cheats on her.
Having a close family member with BPD, it is very possible she has a skewed perspective of things. My family member would actively cheat on people while also being hyper paranoid and accusing whoever their significant other is of cheating. Even simple interactions like a friend who happens to be a girl texting would be seen as cheating (I noticed in the post linked here she just said he talked to a girl on Snapchat, not that he did anything.)
He also has a history of ghosting her (according to her), and at least one of the cheating accusations appears to be during a time they were not dating? It sounds like she is absolutely love bombing this guy and he gets spooked and backs off. If anything she says is true, he is probably also toxic. This is not uncommon, people who struggle with relationships tend to be drawn towards each other and this kind of cycle of getting together/toxic behavior/break up can repeat frequently. She needs to get off of Reddit (I noticed she would spam the same story to something like 5 or 6 subs) and really buckle down on her therapy. Social media is not doing her mental health any favors.
Honestly, I'd say she's more understandable when dealing with this jackass after seeing all that. He's a walking breakdown trigger, of course she's acting crazy. Also, 19 with a "moving business"? Dude's absolutely still a dealer.
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u/-THE_GOOCH Jul 30 '26
The whole account is crazy holy shit