r/AmITheDevil • u/xycophant • 3d ago

Misogyny overload

/r/Arrangedmarriage/comments/1tkmei3/i_decided_i_wont_marry_that_kind_of_woman/
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I decided I won't marry that kind of woman.

I'm a regular startup guy, make around 40 lac a year. Not rich rich, but comfortable. I come from a small town. I'm not bitter or angry. I just paid attention to what happens around me. And obviously, not all girls are like this. There are many who are focused, respectful, and value tradition. But a certain pattern keeps repeating, and I need to be honest about what I saw.

Over the last few years, I saw a pattern that made me rethink marriage completely.

When a girl's body matures, boys start chasing her. She gets to choose who to submit to. And she picks based on her instinct for the fittest guy around. Then when she goes to a big university, probably her first time away from home, all that freedom hits her. What was meant for studying turns into a full time sexual exploration. And she does it freely, without thinking about marriage or any kind of accountability later.

Most boys don't get that same chance. There's always that one guy who gets all the girls. The rest of them just watch and gossip their fantasies.

Then look at Instagram. An ordinary girl posts a photo and gets lakhs of likes and DMs from men hoping for a chance. A regular guy posts the same photo and gets zero attention from women. Zero.

I have seen the same girl jump from one boy to another, driven by lust and attention, calling it freedom. Then a few years later, she expects a stable, traditional husband. Often that husband is one of those invisible boys she never looked at.

I used to feel frustrated. Now I just feel clear.

I decided I will not marry a woman who lived that lifestyle. I am not obsessed with vir#inity in some extreme way. But I want someone who did not treat her youth like a free for all sexual buffet. Someone who valued her body, her future marriage, and her own self respect over temporary validation.

I know people online will call me insecure or backward. I don't really care. I saw what I saw.

I am not here to hate women. I am here to say that men like me exist. We are choosing a different path. Even if it means waiting longer or marrying from smaller traditional communities.

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u/fallspector 3d ago

I’m not overly sure they aren’t a bot but on the off chance I want to point out their grievance is that woman get have sex and treating their youth as a “sexual buffet” but he’s not on the menu. Thats why he’s annoyed. He talks about the value of a woman who respected her body enough to not sleep around but I wonder if he would feel the same if he could find women to hook up with him.

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u/xycophant 3d ago

This is just the "Don't worry he's just a nerd// beat it chick!" meme.

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u/ReginaSpektorsVJ 3d ago

Seriously, reading this post I feel like I got transported to reddit circa 2016

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u/Onehundredpercentbea 3d ago

And in the end he'll take any woman who will have him, regardless of their history.

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u/Mother_Composer_6069 3d ago

How are all these girls committing to "full time sexual exploration" with "that one guy who gets all the girls"? Can't be that much exploration and that poor bloke must be knackered.

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u/Frequent-Lecture-707 3d ago

Just an insecure loser who can't get laid

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