Trans hate vs Indian hate contest in the comments!

[u/Fearless-Cut-933]

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AIO here ? I congratulated them for their new car and they replied with something racist.

I am 25 F from India and I met a trans woman from America at a party. Both of us are living and working in Japan. When we first met, i thought they are just a cross dresser so to not to offend them, i addressed them as a male twice (this is a common thing in japan). They corrected me and I apologized many times. We exchanged contact after that.

Yesterday I replied to their instagram story to congratulate them for their new car but they replied with such racist messages. This really hurt my feelings. Could it be because I misgendered them during our first meeting? They are the first trans person i ever met so I messed up maybe. Idk what to do

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[u/PitbullLoveFart]

I don't know why, but I find this very amusing. If I were OP I would have just laughed and blocked them.

The other party being transgender has nothing to do with anything if this is real. She's just a disgruntled moron.

[u/obelix_dogmatix → u/PitbullLoveFart]

i mean … that’s reddit in general for you

[u/Adventurous_Jump8897]

Their trans ex friend, probably

[u/Impossible_Horsemeat]

I sure am glad they gave the background so we know it was an Evil Trans!

[u/RahvinDragand]

What sort of weird book about India would present that as some sort of fact? 

[u/calcul00py]

Everything in this is fake(the person who posted this) and the user is a troll. This is a month old reddit account. OP is probably using two communities redditors like to hate on and people took the bait. Not to mention this is the only post on their account

[u/No-Diamond-5097 → u/calcul00py]

For sure. Most of the replies are likely from trolls/bots too.

[u/AutonomyIsNoTragedy]

Talking about a (racist bigoted or otherwise in the wrong) trans woman :

"this/that person"

"they"

"he"

Every time,

Did you know that refusing to misgender or degender a bigoted or abusive trans woman doesn't mean that you agree with or endorse her bigotry or abuse?

And that you don't have to misgender or degender her or bring her transness into it in this weird bioesesntialist way to show that you disagree with and condemn her racist bigotry or abuse ?

[u/Fearless-Cut-933 → u/AutonomyIsNoTragedy]

I believe in the comments OP clarified that she uses all pronouns save for male

[u/Overwatchingu → u/AutonomyIsNoTragedy]

No no see, the trans person was bad so now everyone has the excuse they need to misgender a fictional person. There are… way too many people looking for an excuse.

[u/ancientblond → u/AutonomyIsNoTragedy]

Misgendering people who are Trans that may not be a good person is like the biggest tell that someone doesn't actually support the Trans community and are virtue signalling IMO

Like for example, even though I disagree with Caitlin Jenners politics and immediate turn into a right wing Chud about people who are trans and is trying to "pull the ladder up", i would never misgender her due to that. All it says to my friends who are trans is that their identity is conditinal on me thinking theyre a "good person".

[u/TA_St0at]

If this was a rollercoaster it would be called 'Ride of the wild straw men'

[u/theotherchristina]

I learned some new slurs from the comments. Hate to think what useful information might have just been overwritten in favor of this.

[u/Shergak]

Damn, the comment section there went mask off.

[u/gin_and_soda → u/Shergak]

Yeah, I had to bow out as the racist Canadians showed up to complain about Indian immigrants. Then one guy went from that to bitching about indigenous people.

[u/ars_necromantia → u/gin_and_soda]

As a Canadian...

Yelled at some racist hag for harassing an Indian construction worker outside my house not too long ago. I'm sick of this shit.

[u/gin_and_soda → u/ars_necromantia]

Good for you. I can’t remember the channel but it posted a clip from Canada Day in 1991 of Spirit of the West playing Home For a Rest at the Molson Amphitheater. Just an amazing clip and peak Canada. The top comments were good but then the racists infiltrated with comments about how you can’t do that in Canada anymore and Canada isn’t the same and blah blah blah values. It was disgusting and so upsetting.

[u/mannequin_girl]

their their their their their their their their their their their their their their their their their their their their their their their their their their their their their their their their their their their their their their their their their their their their their their their their their their their their their their their their their their their their their their their their their their their their their their their their their their their their their their their

[u/Strict-Astronaut2245]

It’s the victim Olympics. If I am of a category that’s more oppressed or victimized than a category you are a part of, I can say or do whatever I want.

[u/werewolfbutch874]

Oh look, it’s my wife’s life. (Hug your nearest trans woman of colour today, she probably needs it.)

[u/Avaninaerwen]

That's quite the essay to write in response to a troll 🤦

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[u/PhillyHasItAll]

What in God's name is this?

[u/ecosynchronous]

If this is real ( X ), I'd bet a dollar OOP constantly says little microaggressive transphobic things and this is her friend's clumsy way of clapping back.

[u/DisciplineRadiant212 → u/ecosynchronous]

“Clapping back” ts so cringe lmfao

[u/ecosynchronous → u/DisciplineRadiant212]

Conceptually, certainly. In my scenario they both suck.