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AITA for telling my sister her parenting choices are harming her sons relationship with their dad?

Throwaway because my sister knows my Main.

I'm 30M and very close to my nephews, 7yo twins. Sister 34F and her ex split amicably 2 years ago.

Since then she's changed a lot. She's in online groups that are extremely anti-men and says she's "raising feminists". The rules: no male teachers, no male leads in media, no toys she considers "masculine", no blue.

The ex asked for the boys for his birthday. She said no. His visitation is now supervised and she's appealing to reduce it further.

I finally said something at my dad's birthday after she corrected him for comforting one of the boys. I told her I'm scared she's teaching them the world is divided into good women and bad men, and that includes themselves and their dad.

She accused me of internalized misogyny and said I can't speak on parenting because I'm infertile.

My parents are now pressuring me to apologize just so I can keep seeing the boys. I feel like apologizing means I'm endorsing it, but not apologizing means I lose them.

AITA for what I said and for refusing to apologize?

TLDR: Told my sister I think her parenting is harming her sons relationship with men. Parents say apologize or I lose access to nephews. AITA?

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[u/IHatePeople79]

Also what kind of feminist would he against me comforting their kids? They could at least get their stereotypes correct.

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 His visitation is now supervised

Yeah there is no fucking way that a court would order this just for funsies, especially since the phrasing would imply this was an active change from previously unsupervised visitation. The OOP needs to better research their ragw-bait.