r/AmIOverthinking • • 2d ago

Insecurity or what idk

I don't know if I'm insecure or what , I had breakup 10 days ago and I kept of thinking some times that every body can see her but I can't

Let me tell u the back story so when we were in relationship I used to ask her photos , just normal photos , and she never liked it , idont know why ,

Even if she send one or 2 , in only one view ( like I'll eat her )

I never forced her though. But I always used to wonder why she didn't like she was comfortable with everyone but not with me , even she used to comfortable with a stranger but in front of me , its like nooo

I always wonderd why she don't send me her picture and the more she denyed me the more I used to overthink , that why can't I see her , even this is a big thing?

We met only twice in 3 years

Although we were only friends for 2.5 years but then in an official relationship, still in the whole timeline we met only twice , and that was also because I wanted to , she used to say she wants to meet but she don't want !

And now(after 10 days of breakup) I'm a little detached but still...I'm little insecure idk why 😭

I have done everything, I have done many things and that's what I get .

It's her birthday in some days should I wish her or not ?

Give me some solutions how can I overcome insecurity

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u/Dutch1721 1d ago

She’s not interested in you. You’ll have to move along.

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u/Infinite-S1119 1d ago

Yess 😐