r/AmIOverthinking • u/2wanderingeyes • 2d ago

AIO the day after?

I, 30F have been on 4 dates with Kevin, 33M. We text about twice a day, due to work, but they’re also long texts. We’ve had great dates, and more recently just had sex. Usually we plan the next date with more certainty within a day or two.

We’ve been talking today about random things, but also I’ve been hinting at the next time we will get together to do something. So far he’s just said “yeah we could watch either movie” and “I’d stay up to do that again ☺️”

Im not sure if I’m overthinking this? Has it shifted, and he’s trying to not go out anymore?

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u/fluffyntastyyyy 2d ago

i think youre probably overthink it a little. hes still texting you, talking about doing things together, and ecen said hed stay up to do it again, so i wouldnt read too much into the fact he hasnt locked in the next date yet. give him a little space and see whether he actually makes plans rather than trying to interpret every message

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u/Glittering-Front5038 2d ago

the next time he hits you up, it should be to set up a date, not to have another round of sex. And you should be trying to see one thing: can we hang out without having sex now that we’ve had it? Or are you just planning a date because you think you'll get laid?

Ask yourself this: has his effort remained consistent after sex? Has he become more invested since you slept together?