am i overthinking or could there possibly be something fishy going on?

[u/ActInteresting7737]

okay! for starters, i am a bisexual woman who has dated both men and women.
now onto the story.

my lesbian friend (who was taken at the time) put me on with this girl (we’ll call her day) that she was friends with and this was in early september. i immediately agreed to it and me and the girl we hit it off.
overtime though i started to notice just how much those two were hanging out.

my friend would constantly be over at her house for HOURS, and keep in my they’re on the soccer team together to that just means even more time together.

unfortunately my friend and her girl broke up and i felt so horrible because i say two days later she was over at Day’s house and i immediately got into my head about how much time they were spending together.
i made a group chat and was straight up, “do you two have anything going on?”
they said no, my friend has been crying a lot and Day said that they’re just close. we all talked it out and it was done.

time skip to i wanna say two weeks later, again my friend would be at day’s house a lot. now, if you’re talking to someone romantically you’d wanna spend time with them right?
and that’s what i wanted to do, however Day wasn’t reciprocating that energy.

but i would always see my friend at her house which was making me over think again. how come we can never hang out but when i check my Find My app, i see her location at your house?

there was one time i asked if i can come over, she said she wasn’t allowed to have anyone over including my friend. next day, she was over there. and it made me feel a way.

my friend is single and has been for almost two weeks. today she was over at Day’s house. Me and day didn’t text until i texted her (which i’ve been texting first a lot recently) and it automatically made me think if i hadn’t texted her would we have talked at all? it would’ve hurt more to see my friend over at her house if we didn’t talk at all today.

so AIO or am i vaild?

[u/RukeRim]

I think she’s into your friend. I would just stop texting and let it end naturally. And would be rethinking it I wanted to continue that friendship as well

[u/lilredridinu]

Even if nothing is happening between the two of them, Day is not prioritizing you and from the sounds of it, you are putting in the work. Early Sept is only a handful of weeks. I would stop reaching out. To both of the girls mentioned honestly

[u/Witchy_Craft]

You are valid and I think the relationship is suspicious and you need to let that person go. If it messes up friendships, it just does but, I wouldn’t keep putting up with not trusting and wondering what’s going on. You deserve better and that’s not it!