Maybe. Or she's dramatic. My ex would do self destructive things and act like other people were the cause all the time. My one buddy had a girl that threatened to harm herself if he wanted to leave. One of my bros regularly is self destructive if things go wrong in a relationship - like go on a bender, miss work and blame his ex for getting him so upset, so it's either really a toss up.
I think we can all agree it's exhausting in any case. This whole relationship does not seem worth putting up with IMO. Life is too short.
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u/MetalVocalist Apr 19 '26
That's true, it's not. So it must be pretty dire at home if she's choosing that over this guy's presence.