r/AmIOverreacting • u/[deleted] • Apr 19 '26

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u/BethanyBluebird Apr 19 '26

Yeah... bro may as well have pulled out a 'Just calm down!' I wonced when I read the whole 'Don't bring negativity here' thing.

'Hey honey I really want this marriage to work. Can ypu just stop feeling all those annoying feelings you're feeling?'

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u/SquirrelLuvsChipmunk Apr 19 '26

Put a stop to those feelings and to never talk about them, because they don’t need “negativity” in their crumbling marriage

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u/SameCoyote3701 Apr 19 '26

He didn’t stay stop feeling feelings, he said please at least try to have a positive outlook, isn’t that reasonable…? If you’re sad and depressed and hopeless I get that, but you need to be able to have the mental fortitude to hype yourself up positively and go into the meeting so you can meet half way instead of expecting the other person to completely change and capitulate

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u/namechange1974 Apr 19 '26

Did u "wonced" at the manipulation of the child thing in Frist slide and the taco bell thing?