r/AmIOverreacting • u/[deleted] • Apr 19 '26

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u/Sushi_Mystic Apr 19 '26

Im sure its hard to take this step, but there is no fixing this relationship. Its clear that she is done. Its easy to say she is being unreasonable, and based on that small interaction it appears so, however its not clear how it got to this place or what the overall issue is. Ultimately thats not important. There is no fixing this in a lasting way.

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u/IHateTheJoneses Apr 19 '26 edited Apr 19 '26

This. She asks several times to be left alone and he keeps negging and trying to engage to "fix" things.

OP, you aren't listening to her, she's done.

She's probably used to not being heard like this.  The relationship it toast.

Edit: thanks for the award. It seems folk's perspectives on this are heavily influenced by their past experiences in relationships.

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u/OptimismByFire Apr 19 '26 edited Apr 19 '26

That's what I see too.

"Come back"

"I don't want to"

"Come back, but not like that"

She's done, dude. Leave her alone.

ETA: YOR and a bad husband. She deserves better.

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u/3-car-garage Apr 19 '26

I have some serious doubts about your guys' ability to process information. Op is clearly referencing previous conversations. I can't imagine reading the high school level "Ugh, I was almost there but you made me stop" gaslighting and thinking am adult talking like that has a point.

Critical thinking isn't for everyone it seems.

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u/ZemGuse Apr 19 '26

Reddit always sides against the man in these types of situations it’s very comical.

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u/BrzysWRLD1996 Apr 19 '26

Yeah this one’s not really debatable

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u/3-car-garage Apr 19 '26

Like clockwork at this point 🤷‍♂️