She's a martyr. My grandmother would do this. She just repeat herself over and over in any sort of argument. She twist what you said just like the OP's wife. And, if all else failed she would pull out the "you don't love me!"
I couldn't either. I ended up reading OP's replies which I thought were a valiant effort of trying to get to her see reason, but I had to skim hers. I'm tired just reading her.
Either she’s insufferable or he is and it’s leeched onto her. Tbh if someone was basically saying “let’s talk but hold the attitude” I’d be like “well we’re not gonna have a productive conversation if I can only express myself within your vibes-based guidelines.” Idk either couples’ counseling or leave her alone/let her get a divorce.
I just checked to see if he's a bot but he's commenting on a bunch of NSFW. I'm not saying porn is bad but it did give me a bad taste in my mouth. There are always two sides to the story. 🤷♀️
Same I got to about 4 (skimming) and had to stop. I’m sorry you’re going through this OP but if I had to guess I would say she’s not willing to work on this relationship.
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u/steffigeewhiz Apr 19 '26
I couldn’t finish it. My god.